2006-11-02 07:27:37 · 61 answers · asked by ladyflames 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Try your local church. OK...I got 2 thumbs down for my answer so now I'm going to say try your local strip joint.
2006-11-02 07:30:05 · answer #1 · answered by Mr. BIG 6 · 1⤊ 2⤋
My friends ask the same question and I normally give them a list which I must say it even cracks me up, firstly what kind of man are you looking for, kind ,caring gentle etc, well just a few suggestions the courts there are loads of lawyers and well healed guys or also I suppose if you are looking for a bit of rough criminal minded its right there too, then theres church once again nice guys and guys that have committed sins so a bit of each, bars well its all ways the same you end up getting drunk or its really dark the guy seems really nice in the dark until day breaks. so far no good, then again take up yoga you get some really nice guys that are in tune all over???? but be selective on the yoga club you go to theres always the park at the bus stop, supermarket or the out door market well I hope that's helped you a little, when you find him let us know, so I can go ther to.
2006-11-02 07:38:36 · answer #2 · answered by hotindian 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not in a bar or club. You need to figure out what kind of man you want. And then you need to go where they are. Get a job there like secretary or accountant or doctor, whatever speciallty you possess. And you are bound to meet some real jerks, but you can meet some good ones too. The trick is to find out which are the bad and weed them out.
2006-11-02 07:30:43 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not the club or a bar because many of them are freaks or NFA's (No Future Ambition). You can try a park or a restaurant or a retreat (singles retreat or a retreat in something that you are interested in). Maybe at church but many of them are there to talk with their creator to sort out their problems. Maybe at school as long as you don't interfere with the educational enrichment. Maybe at work but it might cause problems such as favoritism, poor work performance or sexual harassment. Whatever you do, don't break up a home/family. Be yourself and be patient because, the person you want to be with has to be attracted to You for being You.
2006-11-02 07:46:31 · answer #4 · answered by tinucoker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok umm dance classes, school classes, church, social events.. It depends what you are looking for in a good man. As a former good man I can say those are the places to start definatly .. Also if you have interest try to find clubs that share them .. You should find good guys their but you got to ask yourself what is a good man to you then search for him
2006-11-02 07:34:15 · answer #5 · answered by Arthur D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is an often asked question that I actually know the answer for, and as an added bonus it works for men looking for good women as well.
First you need to identify a passion/hobby/interest that you have and you would like your future partner/bf/gf to have as well. Model building, sailing, hiking, reading....all of these activaties have a club or social group that meets and talks about or does them together.
For this example lets say you have a love for hiking.....
I would Yahoo Search Hiking clubs, singles hiking, group hiking, (your town/city here).
Then join up, if you go a couple of times and meet know one interesting, try another group or another hobby/passion...eventually you will met someone who you are attracted too, and share a common interest with.
2006-11-02 07:32:36 · answer #6 · answered by magerious 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Church. :O) That's where I found mine.
Unlikely place to find a good man: On the floor in a tavern or in a strip joint.
Other: Well, it depends what you're interested in. If you're a bookworm like me, in a bookstore with a coffee shop. If you're athletic, by joining a group sport, or in a gym. Stuff like that....
2006-11-02 07:32:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I will tell you where you won't find one.
Bar, Dance, and other hang outs. My best friend ask me the same questions, This may sound funny but i would direct you to church outings, church single activities. or go to church and mingle with the single men. where else can you find a good single man who has religious value's and was taught how to treat a women
2006-11-02 07:34:21 · answer #8 · answered by kdc 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a good man, but I may too old for you, and I live in the midwest.
But just in case you're interested.... feel free to contact me---- (had to throw that in) Finding a good woman seems to be hard too.
I've read that most people meet someone to date at work, through their friends, and sometimes at church.
2006-11-02 07:42:14 · answer #9 · answered by still fun 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you're not going to meet anyone sitting at home. You have to get out, and go to places to meet people. Join a dating service (Believe it or not, that's how I met my wife) Learn to golf, join a travel club, ski club or a book club. Join a gym. Go to a pub on a Sunday afternoon, where there might be alot of guys watching football. Good luck !
2006-11-02 07:32:39 · answer #10 · answered by jim 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
here's a suggestion. how about broadening your search. alot of women, it seems, have this fantasy of the type of man they want/need/deserve, and tend to sell themselves short when they dismiss guys who don't meet ALL or MOST of the characteristics of their fantasy man. in other words, be realistic. don't hold out for a 'Brad Pitt' if u don't look like an "Angelina". and don't dismiss guys who are blue collar or not rich, etc if u live in a trailer park yourself. give guys, within reason, to show u their true character b4 u dismiss them as a prospect
2006-11-02 07:33:04 · answer #11 · answered by feetal2003 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋