i've been best friends with this girl for years now and recently i've been getting feelings for her but don't know if i should or how to show them without ruining the friendship any suggestions?
2006-11-02 07:23:44 · 6 answers · asked by umpa831 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Friendship and Love Relationships don't always tend to work out for the best however there have been cases where friends have dated one another and it worked out just fine. Before you tell her how you feel, you might want to ask a friend of the both of yours to talk to her and see how she is really feeling and if your friend says that she feels the same then go for it but just make it clear 1st that she feels the same because you could cause her to feel uncomfortable around you otherwise. God bless you and i hope that it works out for the two of you.
2006-11-02 07:30:30 · answer #1 · answered by sharethalove 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been in this kind of situation before. First of all, how strong are you're feelings for her and does she show any signs of how much she feels about you? Does your relationship feel likes its getting closer? You've got to make a decision, do you like where the friendship is right now, or are your feelings strong enough to risk the friendship and start a relationship? For me I took the risk because my feelings were that strong and I knew that she liked me a little bit too. It was great while it lasted(6 months) but don't expect to be friends again when its over. Its just too hard to go back.
2006-11-02 15:34:03 · answer #2 · answered by almost done 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be very careful and make sure it's worth messing up the friendship b4 you jump into things
2006-11-02 15:26:28 · answer #3 · answered by graciegirl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If there's a way I don't know cuz I'm in the same situation. Just be patient and see how she feels first.
2006-11-02 15:25:42 · answer #4 · answered by Abyssion 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her to join-in in a group activity. See how things go. From there she will ask you if she's interested to join in an activity, or maybe even a date.
2006-11-02 15:27:19 · answer #5 · answered by tobeyp2005 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you dont cuz if you've been friends for a while she probally thinks of u as a brother
or you could jsut tell her that you like her and tell her for how long then just c wat happens
2006-11-02 15:27:45 · answer #6 · answered by Shortie<3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋