my boyfriend and me get on really well, and we're having good time but i overheard that he dosent want it to get any more serious, which for me makes everything pointless, so shud i accept this or is it possible to seduce him into liking me more?
2006-11-02 07:17:53 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he doesn't want to get anymore serious with you then you shouldn't push it. He needs to appreciate you and cherish you without any "feminine wiles". Every woman is a treasure in her own right. You need to find a man who realizes this and truly loves you. But also you need to take into consideration how long you've been together. If its years I would rethink my relationship. If its months, give him time.
2006-11-02 07:22:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you "overheard" that he doesn't want it to get more serious, then you need to ask him outright if this is what he wants. I wouldn't seduce him into liking you more, if he truly has deeper feelings than the ones he has now, then it will happen on its own.
If you want more in a relationship than he is ready to give right now, something more serious than just "fun", then you should probably move on.
Sounds like he'd be a good friend to have though.
2006-11-02 15:21:35 · answer #2 · answered by 7aliens 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you want a serious relationship and he doesn't. Tell him you're interested in different things and move on. If he wants you he'll come to you. If he doesn't you'll know for sure it will never be anything serious and you can go and get another guy.
2006-11-02 15:23:25 · answer #3 · answered by selene 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The last thing you want to do is try to force a serious relationship on someone who doesn't want it. You are asking to get your feelings hurt and possibly cheated on. If you want something serious and he doesn't then you need to move on to the next man.
2006-11-02 15:21:42 · answer #4 · answered by bttrfly0724 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since when is having a good time pointless? I understand, you are a female, and being one, you are pre-programmed to want babies. I myself can't stand the brats but if that is what you want then find a guy who does.
2006-11-02 15:22:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
To me that is a sign that yall relationship is not going any further than where yall are now so why hang on to it. I say move on and find someone else. Are you lookin for someone to grow old with or basically to settle down with, if so, i say that he is not the guy for you and he is holding you back from someone who may be ready for what you are ready for. Move on!!!!
2006-11-02 15:20:56 · answer #6 · answered by jetta 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him whats the point of wasting your time with someone if you know that there will never be anything more between the two of you life is too short
2006-11-02 15:20:25 · answer #7 · answered by tpchick22 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are Mrs. right now. That's clearly all you are to him. Cut him loose and give yourself the opportunity to find Mr. Right. You deserve to be with someone who wants you for more than a fling.
2006-11-02 15:21:25 · answer #8 · answered by sexmagnet 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he doesn't want more, it will not be possible to seduce him more. If you want more then keep looking.
2006-11-02 15:20:03 · answer #9 · answered by Lt 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he might think that u dont' want to get any more serious. talk to him about it. my bf and i went through the same thing- he just didn't want something that i didn't
2006-11-02 15:29:29 · answer #10 · answered by neverland22 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋