OR SO my friend introduced me to this guy and i wasnt taking him serious he told me he liked me but i didnt really care but then one night he told me he loved me and ive only been talking to him 4 2 weeks he said he has never fallin in love this fast and he is 6 years older than mein 14 and hes 20 and i didnt tell him i loved him till i felt right he has a 1 year old son bye anoither female he loves his lil boy but not her cuz she hurt him he says hell never hurt me and he wants to start a family with me and hes seriuos and i told him i cheated on him cuz i felt bad and he sarted to cry and then i took him really serious then rumors started about me that wasnt true then he said hes not going to believe them because it hurts him to even think about it then he says he wants to start a family with me and he wants to stay with me 4 ever and hes gonna bye me and ingament ring what is it dose he really love me hes only know me 4 a month is it real i dont want to get hurt
2006-11-02 07:13:01 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sweetheart,
Youa re 14 years old. And I know at this time it feels like you are mature enough to make this decision, but in reality what you two are doing is a crime in most states.
You have so much to live for. Your future is so wide open. Please wait to be a mom. Go to proms, hang out with your friends on a Saturday night. Go to parties. You only get to do that one time. After that your life will be full of responsibilities. Have fun while you can..
2006-11-02 07:21:15 · answer #1 · answered by annetteb1432003 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are bonafied jail bait. Does he know how old you are? He could do serious jail time if he does anything with you. Stay in school, you are only 14 years old. You do not know how to spell which means you are spending way too much time not studying. Date guys your own age. You do not want to get pregnant and be a mom at 15 years of age do you? He already has 1 son that is only 1 year old. How old is the baby`s mother? There is something seriously wrong with him if he has to get with young girls. Watch out for the guy that cries and tells you he will never hurt you. That is probably what he told his baby`s mother.
2006-11-02 15:21:41 · answer #2 · answered by Sparkles 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're 14. He's 20. He just wants to get in your pants. Your time would be better spent in school, learning punctuation, spelling, and grammar. I won't say that you're too young to understand love, because I met my first love at 14. I will say that, no matter how mature you think you are, you are not ready for an engagement ring or anything like that. SPEND YOUR TIME BEING A CHILD, INSTEAD OF RUSHING INTO LOVE. It's worth the wait.
2006-11-02 15:18:34 · answer #3 · answered by tinkerbell24 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't rush into anything, take your time. What is for you won't go by you. You're too young to be thinking about a family and getting tied down. If you wait and see you will know what you really want. Don't ruin your life with this guy by having a child.
2006-11-02 15:17:25 · answer #4 · answered by AMY S 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he's a psycho and you should run for the hills. You're only 14!! There's something wrong with him though. He needs help and you need to stay far away from him and enjoy being a teenager and not having any responsibility while you can, b/c once it's over, it's over.
2006-11-02 15:16:45 · answer #5 · answered by Alessa 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is just tring to get into your pants. Why would a 20 year old with a child be with another child(you). You are only 14. You need to stay away from this person. He is only out for one thing. STAY AWAY. I really hope you listen to me and the others on here.
2006-11-02 15:16:27 · answer #6 · answered by bigdog_0032 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
It's not real love, this is perversion. A 20 year old guy leading on a 14 year old girl is just plain wrong. Stay away from him.
2006-11-02 15:22:31 · answer #7 · answered by Lyf 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur only 14, think about it this way
when ur 20 will you have any interest in a 14 year old boy, i don't think so. you have the rest of your young life ahead of you, you shouldn't be thinking about starting a family especially with someone who already has a kid whoes only 14 years younger than you
2006-11-02 15:17:08 · answer #8 · answered by jsav209 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Okay, I stopped reading when you said that you are 14 and he is 20. Do you know the meaning of statutory rape? Because if you get involved with this guy the courts will define it very clearly for you at his trial.
2006-11-02 15:16:51 · answer #9 · answered by bttrfly0724 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
He could go to jail for messin with any part of you. You better tell him not to call you again so you don't get him into big trouble. You'd feel really bad if he got arrested because of you and had to spend 5-10 years in jail. He'd never see his son.
2006-11-02 15:18:30 · answer #10 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋