I told my significant other that I wasn't comfortable with him living with his ex girlfriend, so I wanted to wait to date him. He got upset about it and said "well then don't worry about it and move on with your life." I asked him if he really wanted me to and he said "it doesn't really matter either way." What he said really hurt me, and that makes me even more hesitant. Would you still try to date someone you loved who blew up on you for no reason?
2006-11-02 07:11:25 · 10 answers · asked by drowning_in_ur_truths 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
P.S. He is only living with her because he has a lease. She has her own child and is actually dating his friend. They are in know way (to my knowledge) still together.
2006-11-04 08:11:18 · update #1
Being who I am, if I get blown off like that, I'm moving on.
2006-11-02 07:13:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 10⤊ 0⤋
I know a man who lived with his ex wife but eventually he left his gf I wud be suss that his response shows he still has feelings for his ex Maybe not tho I dont know the details here It does seem he isnt ion a hurry to leave her but maybe he thinks u r makin him wait 4 no good reason U know more than I do so give it some deep thought
2006-11-02 07:16:27 · answer #2 · answered by maryjane 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what you are going through is not call love. if that guy love you and being with you now he won't need to live with his ex. if it's me firstly, i will get to know the person more before getting myself into all these but now for you it's too late but the only thing is would you want to continue to drag on with all these dramas? if i'm you i won't cause my life deserve to be better although i could be single having to end this relationship but least i don't allow myself to be hurt cause it's not worth it. it could be difficult for such decision/ choice but it's up to you. what you want for yourself?
2006-11-02 07:17:07 · answer #3 · answered by - 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he didnt have the balls to tell you that he didnt want to date you anymore. no he doesnt want to see you anymore. you should move on. maybe he was "seeing" her all along. why would a man still live with his ex if they werent still together in some way.
2006-11-02 08:15:42 · answer #4 · answered by MiaDiva28 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It takes two interested people to date and he's not interested, so move along. This is not a healthy relationship.
2006-11-02 07:24:01 · answer #5 · answered by Lyf 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it was that easy for him to drop you then it was a good thing you told him you wanted to wait. He could also be trying to get you to chase him. Don't fall for his bull sh*t! Good Luck
2006-11-02 07:14:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No forget him girl, and move on! living with his x what with that. No i couldnt trust him. Plenty of fish in the sea
2006-11-02 07:18:20 · answer #7 · answered by shy pie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't start a relationship with the person who has been hurt your feeling for the first time. believe me...you will get hurt again and again.so leave him alone...
2006-11-02 07:16:26 · answer #8 · answered by gogh 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO, move on, he doesn't care about you. He made that clear, don't be a door mat.
2006-11-02 07:13:59 · answer #9 · answered by Ha Ha Charade You Are................... 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO IF HE DOSENT CARE HE WONT LATER SO DO NOT DATE HIM HE IS A LOZER WHO DOSENOT DESERVE YOUR OR ANY OTHER LIVING THING MOVE ON AND GET SOMETHING BETTER!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-11-02 07:13:51 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋