The guy i am having a relationship with he has ended it, because i was in the office with my ex boss, just talking and working, his mate told him that i was with him, when he confronted me, i lied cause i was scared, the guy i am seeing he is married, he has wife whom he communicates with everyday, there is nothing going on with my ex boss, we are just distant friends, i have told my b/friend that i am scared to tell the truth, when it did tell him the truth he says i dont want to know, he is assuming all sorts, i just don't know what to do, he makes me feel that i am having an affair and i am not, i cant concentrate at work, he is making me ill, i just think who the hell does he think he is, i have no-one in my life, he has a wife, and yet he treats me like this, it is so unfare, he says he doesn't trust me, and i dont trust him with his wife, but no that doesn't count. I have rang him, text him, and nothing from him, it is such a long story i could write a book, HELP!
2006-11-02 06:25:39 · 20 answers · asked by Ruksana P 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You got no respect from him! Leave!
2006-11-02 06:27:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
are you sure that you really need help?? it's hard to have a relationship with the man who had wife. always unfare...but you need to realize your self, because you also create this problem. If you have husband and your husband has affair with any other girls, don't you feel it's hurt..don't feel it's going to make a trouble every single day. there is no way, you will have a hapiness as what you want, unless untill you try to find a single man. don't you ever feel bored for this problem?? go head ...leave him, what are you waiting for?? did he promise to marry you? no way...you waisting your time, you will be old...and it's more hard for you to find a good single guy. ask your self, what you want...before everything is to late.
good luck
2006-11-02 14:39:59 · answer #2 · answered by gogh 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why would u ever wanna go out with a married man. Put urself in his wife's position, ow would u feel if it is u. U dont have respect for urself. The best thing to do to save urself from this mess is to leave this married man alone and move on with ur life.
2006-11-02 14:38:56 · answer #3 · answered by teemah 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wise up. Have you no self esteem or self respect? What are you doing with a married man? How would you feel if you were his wife?? Move on and make better adult and responsible choices. Get some ethics and morals along the way.
2006-11-02 14:31:12 · answer #4 · answered by crimefighter99 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He has a wife? You need to let that go because you've put yourself in a dangerous position. Men are territorial. No man wants to know that another man is messing around with the same woman he is. He has the best of both worlds right now.
I say if he haven't responded to you by now...then good riddance.
2006-11-02 14:30:41 · answer #5 · answered by gloried 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why are you bothering with a married man? The reason he assumes everyone else is a liar and a cheater is becasue HE IS ONE! Why on earth would you put up with someone like that? You must hate yourself to allow something like that.
2006-11-02 14:29:45 · answer #6 · answered by melouofs 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How on earth is he being unfair to you? You were the one who entered into a relationship with a married man and you should have know better. Find yourself a single man and move on
2006-11-02 14:29:50 · answer #7 · answered by Mike 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's being unfair because he is a scumbag. He is married! How is anything in this relationship fair to anyone? You are a liar; he is a cheater. Cut your ties with him and find someone who can be committed to ONLY you. This type of relationship is not healthy for anyone.
2006-11-02 14:32:20 · answer #8 · answered by Dasher 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have got to be kidding.
He's married, woman! With him cheating, it puts in his mind that EVERYONE is cheating. But it doesn't matter, because HE'S CHEATING!! Why would you sell yourself short like that? Don't you think you deserve being a little more than a unpaid hooker? I'm sure you do.
Let that so-called man alone.
I'm just saying....
2006-11-02 14:30:03 · answer #9 · answered by rogerdbnc 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he is insecure about you cause he's doing the same thing to his wife!!! im sorry but their is no way on earth id ever get with a married man!!! how can he ever trust anyone if he can't even be trusted himself!! but in all fairness, if your gonna get involved with a married man don't expect it to be all sweetness and light!!! id walk away if i was you and find someone worth loving!!!!!!!
2006-11-02 14:40:29 · answer #10 · answered by Charlie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He doesn't trust you because he's judging you by his own standards. you obviously don't trust him enough to tell him the truth. You're both better off without each other.
2006-11-02 14:29:18 · answer #11 · answered by F 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋