So I my now ex boyfriend tells me today that yesterday he found out that hes going to be a father and he has a baby on the way next June. So all of those times when he looked my right in my eyes and told me that he loved me and that he wanted to marry me one day was a BIG FAT LIE he was f____ing cheating on me the whole time!! After dating for over a year! I was so shocked when I heard the news this morning and I still kind of am. Just when I thought things were so good between us. N O T!! Why do guys feel so compelled to cheat on their girlfriends?
2006-11-02 06:14:02 · 13 answers · asked by . 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Thanks for all the support people!
2006-11-02 06:26:39 · update #1
I can tell you why alot of guys not all but alot think with there Di*k and not there brain. But dont worry because he got what he deserved he got that girl pregnant and now he is stuck with child support and alot of headachs kids are really expensive. Just be glad you didnt get stuck pregnant and with a huge responsibility you can live your life do things the right way get married and live happy. Dont worry there are good guys out there and you will find him let this loser go on with his messed up life and goodluck to you.
2006-11-02 06:21:40 · answer #1 · answered by lola 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry that happened to you. Obviously he wasn't the right one. Whoever your Mr. Right is, he won't want to cheat on you, because you will be the only women in the world to him.
This guy just likes to drink from multiple fountains. He probably did really love you. He just loved someone else too. He's not cut out for monogomy and he'll do it again and again and again. Actually, what makes him a bad guy is that he lied to you about it. The fact that he can't commit to one woman is more common than anyone thinks. He should have been honest about his proclivity for needing multiple partners. Better luck next time, sweetie!
2006-11-02 06:20:23 · answer #2 · answered by Shepherd 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let me start by saying....that this is so terrible and I hope you can move on from this situation. I feel bad for you, but you should know that not every guy is the same. You definitely need to move on and find someone who is worth your time. To answer your question, I think that some guys are compelled to cheat because they think that you'll stick around while they do their dirt. Its so dumb, they expect us to be there when they mess up and even take them back for cheating on us, but when the tables are turned, they dismiss us in a heartbeat because we've done the "worst thing ever." That mentality is so stupid, move on girl...
2006-11-02 06:21:10 · answer #3 · answered by ♥Spirit♥ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Quite simple my little princess, men (even women) who do that are selfish. and in this case since it resulted in pregnancy irresponsible. If you break up with him, Good for you! because there is bound to be someone who will treat you the way you deserve to be treated. If you are going to try to work it out with him, Good luck to you! It will be hard, I've been through this one before. It's hard to get over the lies and betrayal. Think it through and make your decision! In the meantime, take some "me time" and get yourself together. DON'T let him continue to hurt you by sitting thinking about the whole thing because it will drive you crazy. Also DON'T let him blame you because it has NOTHING to do with you, it's HIM.
2006-11-02 06:26:03 · answer #4 · answered by goodgirlabout2gobad 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
because they want the cake and eat it to and some times two cakes. Obviously you can do better then him girl, let him go nicely and he will see he lost something good. the next guy you date don't let your self get emotionally involved until you feel he is putting a good amount of work into the relationship to. good luck =}
2006-11-02 06:17:56 · answer #5 · answered by babygirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because they're not getting their needs met during the relationship! I don't understand why men would cheat just because! Why try to maintain a relationship with someone who doesn't love you back? Move on with your life and you deserve better!
2006-11-02 06:17:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not call it cheating , that is just what guys do and they could still love you - I go out on my gf all the time and i love her - you should be happy for him and support him - i hope this helps you
2006-11-02 06:19:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm so sorry that you met such a jerk! Stay strong and stay busy. Be patient and Mr. Right will find you. Good Luck.
2006-11-02 06:17:49 · answer #8 · answered by Lt 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Confucius Say: "Man handed @ss on silver platter, gobbles it up, like hungry wolf!!!"
Mr Happy
:o)
2006-11-02 06:17:11 · answer #9 · answered by hagtagg 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because they are all little boys and think of women as toys and they want more and more toys.
2006-11-02 06:16:53 · answer #10 · answered by Eyes of Green 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋