After almost 9 years and two beautiful children later, I found out my husband cheated on me. How do I cope, how can I keep myself from crumbling??
2006-11-02 06:13:15 · 11 answers · asked by sakura322 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Your girlfriends are the best cure. Take advantage of that!
2006-11-02 06:15:06 · answer #1 · answered by Lezalicious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-07 17:10:43 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you must consider if you are going to try and keep the family together OR if him cheating is too much and unbearable for you to see him again, opt for the option to divorce him. Think what is best for you and your family. a broken heart can always be healed through the love of your children, support from relatives and through the discovery of a new love. Good luck.
2006-11-02 06:17:18 · answer #3 · answered by Wibble 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get out! Lean on family and friends. A true friend will always stand with you when things are not going well. The healing process is a long road to travel, don't travel that road without these people to walk beside you. It is working for me. Good luck.
2006-11-02 06:25:14 · answer #4 · answered by daffy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first step is to get out! Remove yourself from him. go to family or really good friends. You know sometimes life throws you a curve ball and you are suppose to know what to do with it. I don't know how you are with your spirtuality but I believe God does not dish out anything to you that you can't handle. Just keep your head up, be there for kids, concentrate on them and read a book.....good luck
2006-11-02 06:18:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
remember the good times you had together, forgive him and remember the best part of him is in your children and the best part of your life is still yet to come. Lastly, Jesus is the only one who heals the brokenhearted an binds up their wounds. Psalms 147:3
2006-11-02 06:22:53 · answer #6 · answered by faithfull 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. your children
2. your friends
3. your family
Count on them, give yourself some nights out, talk to your friends, and if you have a good family behind you, I am sure keepin the kids for ya every now and then would be a pleasure to them. Good Luck, and remember that his cheating is NOT your fault!!!
2006-11-02 06:17:38 · answer #7 · answered by Yahoo Answerer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get more involved w/ the children you 2 have.Make it worth forgiving...But not forgetting...Take Marriage Counseling...It may help more....
2006-11-02 06:16:07 · answer #8 · answered by SyMoNe H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh my god.. that was crazy huh! well make yourself busy try to forget things that u used to do with hium.. frogive him so u can live in peace go to dating website. do everything that will help u forget him. focus to your children. find out a new hobby cooking sport whatver soemthing that u will enjoy and will love to do. a millions of guys waiting for you if you are into it. go for it girl..
i hate they girl who screw your family pak her.
2006-11-02 07:13:13 · answer #9 · answered by cover girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't think when I'm on Xanax... will have to answer this question tomorrow.
2006-11-02 06:18:04 · answer #10 · answered by sneakyfker 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋