every approach i make towards girls i like on the net, i seem to be getting rejected or not accepted, and its really hurting me. i do deal with mental health probs to, low self confidence low moods. amoungst other things, but im trying not to concentrate on that. im so lonely and feel isolated all of the time. i crave female company, i dont no if my desperation is showing through or clingyness. i can get obsessive and possessive to with girls, i keep trying to fight that. but i dont think its something i can do alone. what can i do? being rejected by girls all the time is destroying me and making me angry
2006-11-02 06:11:10 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
im 29 and its annoying me the way girls are acting towards me
2006-11-02 06:13:07 · update #1
You need to find a girl that you can talk to, I don't now if finding a girl on the net is a good idea. Get involved in something you like, and make your self happy first you can't expect some girl to jump into your life and make you happy... She can make your happier but you first must be happy with your self!
2006-11-02 06:15:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
What the heck are you doing trolling for chicks on the net? That's not very productive. Go somewhere where there are lots of people. Go to malls, bars, grocery stores, sports games, anywhere that you can meet live girls in the flesh. Don't go looking for girls either. Go looking to meet everyone. The only way to find a good girl is to stop looking. You will find eachother when you are not pressuring yourself for results.
2006-11-02 15:18:52 · answer #2 · answered by sexmagnet 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you sound like a good guy. there is always someone for everyone. stop thinking of the stupid girls who cant appreciate a good guy when they meet one, like you, but you need to learn that you are a good man with good qualities, such as honesty, and you do deserve some one who will love and appreciate you. you sound amazing. you don't need a girl to be able to make it. but since your looking no offense but try not to seem so desperate, try not acting sooooo interested and then once you get that one your looking for, then show her what your made of and she wont ever want to leave you, don't try so hard, you don't need to, you have a lot going for you,,,, a lot to work with. you need to be proud and happy with who you are. the way others see you, people say mean things to make them feel better, some one IS coming your way. Good Enough?
2006-11-02 14:58:42 · answer #3 · answered by KatieJB 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stormy relax, there's always water in the well buddy. try not to get too obsessive or possessive maybe that's the problem. u can't allow little things like females to get to u man be smarter than that.
2006-11-02 14:15:40 · answer #4 · answered by Henry P 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would work on your self-esteem before looking for female companionship. There are some great books and websites out there. Take some time for yourself and work out your issues. You can get over it if you work at it.
2006-11-02 14:15:36 · answer #5 · answered by grudgrime 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It happens all the time bro, mentally get stronger after the rejection.
2006-11-02 14:16:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This things happened! that should you think about it!
2006-11-02 14:12:30 · answer #7 · answered by Jerdy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be yourself...
2006-11-02 14:13:17 · answer #8 · answered by m m 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋