Me and my bf are now broke up. I walked into the apartment last night and all of his stuff was gone. I want him back. He never cheated, and the girl he texted, it was about tickets...i saw the text online. I feel really stupid about how i went about handling the situation. I mean, I really went balistic on him for an assumption.
I went to his moms house this morning and apologized to him for ever hurting him emotionally. I want him back and i am gonna see if he can come over tonight.
How can I go about getting my man back?And plz give good ideas or I will delete the answers.
2006-11-02 06:05:47 · 20 answers · asked by yagurlbubblez 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Listen hun.
After that, you need to understand that the ball is in his court. All you can do is sincerely apologize and give him some space.
Also, you have to know yourself and ask yourself if you are suspicious of him and have been consistently "checking" him to see if he's cheating, or accusing him of cheating.
These things tend to pile up to the stage where he just can't stand it and moved out.
Since you didn't specify here, I don't know if you had been doing this before this time, if you did, you may find getting him back more than difficult.
Remember to give him space to sort it out. Calling him every hour and going over to his house every day will not help. A sincere apology, and a sincere promise to not repeat the mistake, will be the only thing you can do. The rest is up to him.
Good luck
2006-11-02 06:13:33 · answer #1 · answered by MisterO 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you screwed up and over-reacted. Say you wish you could go back and change the way you handled the situation but you can't, so you're hoping that he can forgive you. If he's a good guy, he'll understand that you're human and you make mistakes. A fight doesn't have to be the end of the relationship-it's just a bump.
Hope this helps!
2006-11-02 06:10:40 · answer #2 · answered by Lezalicious 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First, your on the right path in apologizing. I know as a male if I was wrongly accused I would feel hurt. Thing you can do is make sure he understands this and that it was an honest mistake. Try to get him to go out for dinner or something and keep it light and if he's true to you, time will work it out and you'll forget the whole thing
2006-11-02 06:10:55 · answer #3 · answered by dadknows 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well... How long have you two been together? Does he love you? Is he just mad that you went ballistic? If he says that he needs some time... Go out and have fun. Once he realizes that you are out having fun, he will want you back! Thats how guys are, they always want what they cant have and if he thinks he cant have you, then he WILL want you. So play hard to get. I know that games suck, but this is your future you are talking about. Ya gotta play it right, so dont call him, dont talk to him unless he CALLS YOU! Also, If this goes on for longer than 2 weeks... one night when he calls, tell him that you have plans, or that you have company over and have to go. Its going to really get his wheels turning then. If you play it right... he will be begging YOU to come back!
2006-11-02 06:19:10 · answer #4 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he really cared about you he wouldn't of left. He was just waiting for the write moment to move on. He used the anger abut the tickets as an accuse.
Their maybe no fixing this relationship. If you have tried everything to bring him back. Then, he doesn't want to go back.
He may want to move on.
When you sit down with him ask him this question.
Are you happy living with me? What can i do to make are relationship last.
2006-11-02 06:16:10 · answer #5 · answered by kdc 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You've apologized. Now you can begin 'courting' him. Invite him over for a home cooked meal. He'll laugh at that, because he's been eating your cooking for however long you've been together, but treat it like a first date. Make his favorite foods, put flowers on the table, your favorite song playing, and let him know that you have learned an important lesson -- not to jump to conclusions, and that he is the guy you want to be with. That he is honest, hasn't lied to you, hasn't cheated on you, and you love him to bits.
Hope it works!
2006-11-02 06:10:00 · answer #6 · answered by old lady 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think just talk to him. personally, if that happened to me, i would feel like anything else you do (such as buying a gift, an extravagant dinner, etc.) would be a sign saying your tring to buy him back. i think the best thing would be for you to just sit him down and talk to him and explain what you were thinking...or not thinking. Before you go and make rash decisions again...talk to him. that is part of the reason so many devorces are happening is because there is little communication between spouces. learn to talk to him about everything so when the time comes for you two to be married, you will have that foundation to talk to one another.
2006-11-02 06:12:00 · answer #7 · answered by sjsugiant 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-01 06:08:34 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
remember things that he always loved doing when ya'll were together, try doing some of those things..then take HIM out to dinner, and you pay the check, talk about what happened and then tell him exactly how you feel...he is going to be hurt, but apparently you want him back enough to work hard for it, tell him how sorry you are then after dinner, go bowling or putt-putt or something like that where you can talk some more.
2006-11-02 06:10:50 · answer #9 · answered by ..::Sierra::.. 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The best thing you can do is apologize for snooping and getting angry when there was no cause for it. Give him a chance to explain his side of the story. It's up to him whether he wants to go back, and you have to learn to trust him more.
2006-11-02 06:08:57 · answer #10 · answered by Blue Jean 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋