Agree or Disagree? Why men cheat??

Question

Women are always asking why men cheat. Well here is the answer. Women always want a man that they can't have, so they (women) will put it (Pu**y) right in a mans face until he takes it. Why wouldn't a man take some that is being thrown at him. It takes strong will power for a man to turn down easy p****. (Honestly most men dont' have that will power) Men don't have to go out and look to cheat, women throw it at men all the time. How many questions have you read on here about women wanting to be with a man that is in a relationship or married. So women the next time you ask why do men cheat, think about a time when you wanted to do a man in a relationship or married and answer the question yourself. Men cheat because women can't stand to see another woman happy with a man that she wants. I am not catogorizing all men and all women, but it seems to be the situation a lot of the time.

Answer 1

so true, I agree with that and have found myself in that position but becuase my parents braught me up right I know not to go after a married man, or even in a relationship, there are plenty men out there that are just as good as the married ones or taken ones, leave the ones that are married alone and if they have difficult times in there marriage they should be telling there wifes before looking at another women, so to the females and males when you know someone is with someone else just be a friend not a sex friend and find someone else that may simulate that one you want, and thanks for making this one so much better then the rest of the questions on here and you know something else we were all born with a brain and taught how to use it wisely, we know right from wrong so come on, were not stupid people in this world, just remember to use what was given to you from the time you were born!

Answer 2

I believe that there are at least 3 types of men.... Men who will cheat regardless of how his marriage is going... ( more than likely, he married for alterior motives anyhow). The guy who loves his wife truly. She had everything but the look he desired, so if he does come across that Hally Berry that he really lusted for, it will probably be a done deal! Fantasy fulfilled! May not ever happen again (outside of Hally!) There are some guys who have everything they were looking for. Total package. Not far along in the relationship wifey starts to change. I'm not saying he's perfect, but some women like to be spoiled... & that's cool until she forgets her part. Forget what she has to do to keep his attention. I don't mean monitarily, gifts, etc. only. But she never worries about this. Why? Because he continues to do his part, so she believes she has everything sewed up...... Oblivious to his needs.... but alas! It's funny how other women seem to have an eye (ear,nose & throat!) for this type of man.... More than likely, she's on the other end of the spectrum... Lonely. Dying for someone to cuddle with at night & do the simple things most men desire! But alot of married women take for granted that we will never notice what's lacking, because we don't have feelings... or something to that effect,anyhow! Whatever it is that makes some women only see what the man doesn't do for her, & that's a good enough excuse for her to fall off.... you've just created the third guy!

Answer 3

You are making it sound like men cheat, and it's women who are to blame. That they go around "throwing it in their faces". And men are weak and have no will power. That's a bunch of crap. It's not about will power, it's about your morals, and how much respect you have for yourself,and the person you are in the relationship with. Men are not the only ones who cheat, Women do too. People have the choice, they can make excuses, weakness, will power, privates being thrown in their faces, or they can be a stand up person and stay within the boundaries of their relationship.

Answer 4

Interesting viewpoint...

But I do not agree.
I believe that there are people out there that do flaunt themselves out there as "bait" b/c they need someone to validate their sexuality & desirablity. I think these folks (men & women) have low self esteem and need some help in the head.
The ones you are referring to who go after men who are in relationships...are scandalous. Have anyone head of Karma? if you break up a happy home - don't be crying when someone else comes along and take him away from you....

I truly believe that people cheat because they are NOT happy in their relationships. P**** and d***s can be thrown in your face but when you realize that what you have at home is WORTH more than a little piece of azz then the TEMPTATION to cheat won't cross your mind. It is not will-power. Don't HIDE BEHIND THAT!!! Be a man and take credit for your actions. If you don't have an ounce of decency then don't expect too much respect when all hell breaks loose and bite you in the azzzzzzzzzz.

Answer 5

Your point view may be correct in certain cases. But that's not true always. If that's right then there shudnt be any 'rape crimes', as in that case the lady is not offering any thing rather trying to get rid.
If we talk on the matter seriously, then the men involded in the incidents, you have mentioned are character-less, un-loyal, dis-honest, vulgar etc. Look a respectful, gentle, loyal person will never accept any offer weather free or even with reward ( chance of s** and money as well).

Answer 6

Damn ain't that the truth...although there are SOME dudes that are just straight assholes or still faithful to their game, and on occassion do the damn thang. But yea a lot of times women will PURPOSELY homewreck just out of jealousy or vindictiveness all that. Now honestly if the dude was inteligent he'd just ignore the b*tch or just sic your wife on her, the first offense avoided is the best defense taken, but then a lot of dude's willpower just...sucks. Thankfully I ain't like that...say what you want but all i need is one....and if i can avoid pussy til i'm 23 then i can gladly stay faithful to my baby, besides she does sh*t that no other woman i've messed with has done before....you just don't lose these kind of women no SIR!

Answer 7

I disagree. Men with a high opinion of themselves and of thier relationship won't cheat. Weak men cheat. men who feel they have to "prove" they are a man cheat. men who can't feel good for who they are, and need other women to make them feel good cheat. Losers cheat. Men who feel they must conquer women cheat.give it up. It has nothing to do with how many women throw themselves at some man...it has to do with what sort of MAN he is.

Answer 8

I don't know if I totally agree with your phrasing but I suppose I agree with your premise ... somewhat.

I think men who cheat do so because they (think they) can get away with it.

The presence of baiting by a woman or absence thereof is a secondary issue.

I don't cheat because I do not savor the thought of the consequences of such behavior being discovered.

I think its mostly a question of respect.

Answer 9

that has got the be the worst excuse for cheating that i have ever heard! you don't think that women hit hit on all the time. like we don't get 10 inches thrown at us all the time! please. it's called loyalty. if you are happy with the person you are with, there is no problem. so please stop trying to spread around your crap about how men have no will power and will always take something that is being thrown at them. maybe you are the weaker sex after all.

Answer 10

agree ..women do seem to hate on each other... oh too well...where men seem to go with the flow.. I never did get this aspect of why women catty with each other..flirt with the other gils man on purpose ..im a woman and still dont get it???