I really like him
2006-11-02 05:57:05 · 24 answers · asked by Nana 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
thats exactly what happened to my frend! u c she likes this guy and he admits he likes her too, theyre really good frends but he said he doesnt want a relationship yet, because he just got out of one and wants to wait. ask the guy why he wants to wait, and if its a good reason, like he still has to get over his ex or smthin, wait. getting over ur ex is a good reason, well, because eceryone has to do that before they can start a new thing, and every person needs a different amount of personal time and space for it. ask him why! good luck!
2006-11-02 06:02:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say if another opportunity comes around, take it. If he sees that he's not your only choice, it could serve to make him want you more.
And who knows, he might NEVER be ready if you just sit around waiting for him... and the perfect guy might just pass you by while you're waiting with only eyes for him.
Don't be desperate to get into any other relationship just because he doesn't want to go out right now, but if another good opportunity presents itself, take advantage of it. Don't feel held back by this other guy.
I hope that helps. Good luck!
2006-11-02 06:00:38 · answer #2 · answered by Telltale Muffin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U should get to know him first and then u should start a relationship, if you really like him as much as you say then u should wait, but have a backup plan in case this falls through.
2006-11-02 06:00:06 · answer #3 · answered by ♥PopLock&DropIt♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Congratulations!! You just got a best friend for life. If a man doesn't jump when you are ready than you will both never be ready at the same time.
Love is a spontantious act. If you have to wait..its not meant to be.
2006-11-02 05:59:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's actually real simple. Move on!
If he is attracted to you and wants to be with you day and night, then you form a relationship.
If he wants to be friends then he will tell you he doesn't want a relationship, Anyway don't sweet it. Move on! and when you decide to do so he will probably follow.
2006-11-02 06:03:17 · answer #5 · answered by kdc 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on with your life, because it seems to me that he isn't really interested in being in a steady relationship! Besides, there are plenty of fish in the sea!
2006-11-02 05:59:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you think that he will someday want a relationship and you are willing to wait until he does, then wait. If you dont think that he will ever want a relationship or you are not willing to wait until he does, then dont wait.
2006-11-02 05:59:38 · answer #7 · answered by Allinwiththenuts 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Waiting for guys to decide if they want to be with you is never a good idea. It makes you look unattractive. Instead of Bambi, you look like roadkill.
2006-11-02 06:00:26 · answer #8 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on!! Wait for no one. Life is too short!
2006-11-02 05:59:51 · answer #9 · answered by shaqmc21 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think a lot of this depends on age.
As you get older you tend to take your time.
A life experience thing I guess.
If you are younger and no real action.
Move on. Something is not right.
Under 30 Patience is not common.
2006-11-02 05:59:56 · answer #10 · answered by Kaustaub 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋