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i have been with her for 10 months but it doesnt seem to work any more but she really likes me. it gets worse because i really like her mate, i dont want to hurt her feelings because she is my friend to. what should i do?

2006-11-02 05:49:10 · 23 answers · asked by Ben B 2 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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sounds to me like your a player!....if your not happy move on!....and leave her friend alone, you'll will only mess up their friendship!

2006-11-02 05:55:45 · answer #1 · answered by Just passing the time! 5 · 0 1

you should be honest with her tell her how you feel but dnt use any of those stupid break up lines that will make it hurt more...you never know she may feel the same way...tell her you still want to be her friend and you don't want to hurt her...tell her that you like her mate and that you wont persue anything yet but it is a distinct possibility in the future...tell her the truth dont lie to her be up front and honest i'm sure she'll understand it just may take a while but remember always be honest with her... good luck x

2006-11-02 14:13:58 · answer #2 · answered by <3Princess<3 2 · 0 0

Break up with the girlfriend but don't ask her friend out. If the friend is a friend worth having or a girlfriend worth having, she will be loyal and will have nothing to say to you. In any case, if your girlfriend really likes you a lot she is likely to be very upset that you've broken up with her, and her friend will be too busy comforting her to have any time for you or anyone else.

2006-11-02 13:57:00 · answer #3 · answered by Specsy 4 · 0 1

If you are not happy in a relationship...fix it or move on. Really. You won't do yourself or your girlfriend justice if you stay and are unhappy. You deserve more, she deserves more...and there may be someone right around the corner who will make you very happy. For her too - if you're not her "someone" then let her go. It's all about love and respect...if you have it - fix this or move on.

Wish you the best whatever you decide.

2006-11-02 13:53:44 · answer #4 · answered by Grá 3 · 1 1

If the relationship isn't working you should end it. Stop wasting your time and hers. I wouldn't move in on the friend too soon unless you want a whole lot of trouble.

2006-11-02 14:32:14 · answer #5 · answered by F 3 · 0 0

I think u should leave her becos that;ll be best for u. When u leave her, make sure that u dont hook up with her mate becos that means alot of problem. Move on with u life and find someone else to be with

2006-11-02 13:58:51 · answer #6 · answered by teemah 2 · 1 1

do you really have to go out with her mate? I am guessing you are young - can't you just break up with her as kindly as possible and leave her alone? How about you don't think about what you want, but how to do this as kindly as possible?

2006-11-02 14:16:04 · answer #7 · answered by rose_merrick 7 · 0 0

Erm how about if you dump her then your mate will hate you make your girlfriend hate you for "No Reason" and then go with her mate who will feel sorry for you!

2006-11-02 14:31:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Do you still like your girlfriend, if not them you should leave her. However don't even think about going after her friend, because if you do that you will lose them both

2006-11-02 14:17:48 · answer #9 · answered by Baps . 7 · 0 0

say you canny deal with a girlfriend at the moment and don't flirt with the other one for at least a month
this way you come away looking like a nice guy and get the girl you want
do it in a respectable way or karma will interfere

2006-11-02 13:54:39 · answer #10 · answered by ciaran_m_o 2 · 0 1

What do mean you like her mate? you like her friend. Listen if you do not want to be with her that is fine let her know so you can both move on. But moving on to be with her friend is cruel and wrong!!! Don't do it!! Move on and be with someone she does not know.

2006-11-02 13:53:12 · answer #11 · answered by shaqmc21 2 · 0 1

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