i became friends with this girl at the benging of the school year and then i waslike talkin to her ex and she does not know should i tell her or what
2006-11-02 05:44:24 · 17 answers · asked by nikki 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Are you bad for talking to someone's ex? No. However, you should ask your friend if it's OK with her before you take it any further.
2006-11-02 05:47:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well it all depends on if you knew it was her ex at the time you and her became friends. If you did then yeah I consider that was a bad choice for you to make but that doesn't make you a bad person. If you didn't know it was her ex of course tell her and explain to her that you didnt know and I really don't know what to tell you about your friendship with her and still you dating her ex. Because if you are still going to be friends despite the fact that you are dating her ex then I hope all goes well and mainly she probably will be talking to you about their relationship and what happened and why they broke up. So to answer your question, no that dont consider you as a bad person. Is it going to be him or your friendship with her is a choice for you to make.
2006-11-02 13:51:11 · answer #2 · answered by BabyGirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why does it matter if you were talking to her ex?
an ex is an ex for a reason.
she doesn't "own" him.
just talk to him!
I am sooooo sick of all these girls/women who think that they still "own" their ex's and that no one else should touch them!!! Who cares what someone does with ANYone else after you break up with them? I think what really pisses these women/girls off is that their "guy" found someone who he thinks is "better" than them and that just drives them insain!!! People say men are competitive... they are wrong.. Women are the most and worst competitors when it comes to guys. I say grow up.... get a life... once someone is out of your life... they are out.... let them live their own life just like they let you live yours.
2006-11-02 13:46:52 · answer #3 · answered by .... 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you met him before you knew her then explain to her and hope she understands. But if you met him knowing he's her ex then good luck. Thats kind of a hard pill for a friend to swallow. She may still have unresolved feelings for him. You may have to decide which of them mean more to you.
2006-11-02 13:51:42 · answer #4 · answered by Carrie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you are not a bad person. But who are you wanting to be most loyal to? You I hope. And yes tell your friend. No matter what occurs you walk away with your dignity.
2006-11-02 13:51:29 · answer #5 · answered by bountyhunter101 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'll be a bad friend if you don't tell her. See how she feels about it, personally I think you should find someone else because you just go don't out with your friends exes.
2006-11-02 13:48:59 · answer #6 · answered by lovemykalli 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
talk to her about it. if she is a good friend i would stay away from the guy. if not, then what have you got to lose. just make sure you respect her. dont go around making out with the guy infront of her. ya know
2006-11-02 13:48:08 · answer #7 · answered by keeping it real 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are under no obligation to tell her, whether you talked to some one, even if he is some ones ex. You only talked. Talking no crime.
2006-11-02 13:50:12 · answer #8 · answered by openpsychy 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you never got in a relationship with the guy then you don't have to tell her anything.
2006-11-02 13:47:08 · answer #9 · answered by Cassandra H 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would tell her but if he is her ex then it should not matter.
2006-11-02 13:47:13 · answer #10 · answered by Grown Lady 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋