I mean when you fall for someone it's not just based on the body type. right?? Because you like them for how they are and not always for how they look like. tell me what you think!
2006-11-02 05:43:43 · 16 answers · asked by Purple Tink 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it is true about some people that have great bodies and think they're better than everyone else. Some of those people are just plain out rude. I'm not saying all of them but most of them don't even look at you if you're not skinny like them.
2006-11-02 05:55:47 · update #1
Of course looks are important. I married a girl that I thought was beautiful. I still think she is beautiful. Looks mean a great deal to people in relationships therefore it is important to try to make ourselves attractive to our spouse. There were a lot of girls that I really liked but I was turned off by their looks. Some were overweight, some were underweight, some had facial proportions that didn't appeal to me, some were too tall some were too short, etc. Finally I found someone that I thought was perfect and she thought I was perfect. That was the purpose of dating. Some of the girls I dated didn't find me appealing, some of the girls I didn't find appealing someone else DID. That is life.
2006-11-02 06:41:00 · answer #1 · answered by Mr. Curious 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My wife that i have been with since i was 15 is the one and only woman for me...When we met we were good friends and spoke about many things...one afternoon she was upset about some prick who had cheated on her..i walked over and started talking about a month later we were dating and became so linked into each other that we would finish each others sentences and we still do now....i love her with all my heart and would never leave her i think she has a great body but I've already said to her that I'd love her always even if she were four stone or forty....I'd always be by her side she is my woman and i her man...i believe that love is best with a friend rather than some girl you think is sexy because eventually she'll get bored and move on that's what i think but when i first went with my girl i thought (and still do) that she had a great body and i always will i love you Natalie....
2006-11-02 05:53:07 · answer #2 · answered by Buster 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The way the person looks should not matter. All the matters is the kind of person they are, but at the same time there should be something about the person body that attracs you or else it mite make you look away in the future. So you need at least a little on the physical look.
2006-11-02 05:55:14 · answer #3 · answered by kat_of_hell 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I definately go for personality...but body type has it's place. For example, I'm really thin and love doing physical activities. My b/f, when we started dating, was rather squooshy. That didn't stop me though. But, after awhile, he realized that he wasn't fit enough to keep up with me (I love running, he likes sitting on the couch and eating), also there was the whole issue with sex (imagine a hippo trying to have sex with a small giraffe...it's rather akward). So, he decided to join me at the gym. He may not be anywhere close to my body type, he still has some squoosh, but I love it because his hugs are amazing. So body type is important up to a point, then it doesn't really matter.
2006-11-02 05:49:28 · answer #4 · answered by nyrockfan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
people are beautiful on the inside.........but then again...that's just what ugly people say.....hahah
yes body does matter....there's different types of love....passionate...compassionate....ect. the type of love which leads to a healthy marrage is a mix between the two i listed above....in order to love some one passionately...there has to be an attraction...and lets face it....when you stare at somone from across the room...it's not because you're attracted to their bubbily personality, or their kind giving nature....it's physical attraction.
However in some cases, people do overlook body because they have fallen in love with a person for other reasons...and at that point their point of view changes about what's "attractive"
2006-11-02 06:01:32 · answer #5 · answered by anthony v 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was never one to like or dislike someone because of how they looked. Looks aren't everything. I am not the best looking person in the world but I have a great personality. That is what I look for in a person that I want to be friends with, or when I was single, date.
2006-11-02 05:48:18 · answer #6 · answered by Donna 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looks don't matter too much. There is a level where is someone is horribly deformed that you may not be able to deal with it but no one needs to look perfect. The Number rule is kinda what happens for most people.
2006-11-02 05:46:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur right there, i use to think image and look body etc were everything but i'm glad i'm past that phase cos in order to have a great relationship and to be happy, it's all about the person and if they make u happy, not the body. i'm soo in love with my current bf but he don't exactly have a 6 pack but i don't care.
2006-11-02 05:46:54 · answer #8 · answered by DaRkAnGeL 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that if a guy doesn’t like you for who you are, than you don’t really need him, right. Will he might like you for a while but then he’ll turn his back on you, just like that. So I think that it doesn’t really matter how your body look’s like. If he doesn’t like the way your body look’s like then he’s a jack *** and doesn’t know what he’s missing. Trust me one of these day u will find some one who will love the way your body is and be with you. =)
2006-11-02 05:54:49 · answer #9 · answered by candygirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To me, looks aren't everything! Others should love and accept the person on the inside and stop looking on the outside!
2006-11-02 05:49:11 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋