me and my ex have been arguin alot lately about several things and and one was becasue i lost our baby and he said some hurtful things. I left him alone cuz i was upset and a couple of days later he txted and appologised so i rang him. We had a nice convo and he said if i wanted i could call him back in a bit which was nice cuz i thought that we had cleared the air. Im feelin ill at the mo and spent the last couple of days in bed so i txted him yesterday sayin hey how are you, etc and said he didnt have to reply if he didnt want to, so there was no pressure on his part. He txt me last night sayin he had finish worked but my phone was in my room. Then when i went up to bed bout 11 i had 2 missed calls and a txt sayin that he had tried and i hadnt so he would leave it, this was bout 10:30. I then called him cuz i thought he might be awake and he didnt answer so i said i was sorry and that i was downstairs and that i fell asleep.
2006-11-02 05:41:53 · 45 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
15 mins later he then called sayin he had just woke up so i said why cuz he normally just leaves it till the next day so he hung up on me. i rang back to explain that i wasnt bein funny but thats what he normally does. so he then told me he was goin bak to sleep anyway. then this mornin i textin him sayin sorry bout last night but i feel really ill and dont need him ringin me and wakin me up just to tell me he has woken up and goin back to sleep. what i dont get is why was he so keen to talk to me. i havent heard from him at all today
2006-11-02 05:42:30 · update #1
just to let you know that he has a new gf and everything, HE dumped ME and im the one who has had all the pain
2006-11-02 05:46:53 · update #2
Don't call him again then, let him call you if he wants. Don't worry too much!
2006-11-02 05:45:23 · answer #1 · answered by lady butterfly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like your playing 'catch your it' via phone. Your not on the same page right now, your hurt, and I am so sorry about your baby, and he probably has feelings going on that he can't talk about. Don't worry if you don't hear from him everyday, or several times a day. Take time to heal YOU and let the rest fall into place, what you are feeling right now, may not be how you feel when all the dust settles. I wish you the best!
2006-11-02 05:48:49 · answer #2 · answered by JazzyLynn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen girl, You need to stop catering to this guys beck and call, So what you lost your baby, that sucks , But S#!t happens, I'm sure it was not deliberate. This guy needs to realize that the world and you for that matter do not revolve around him. It sounds like the both of you have some growing to do, Mentally and emotionally. I do not mean this in a bad way, but you have to know when it's time to hold-em and when it's time to fold them. You said he was an ex, So you folded your cards, don't try to pick them back up of the table. Count out your loses and move on there are allot of great guy's out there and there are allot of a$$ holes, It kinda sounds like this guy is not one of the nice guys. So move on, try to find some one new and try to keep life simple, you don't want to be a drama queen. And last but not least STOP SAYING YOUR SORRY!!!!
2006-11-02 05:57:02 · answer #3 · answered by matt v 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well his having a new girlfriend doesn't help the equation..seems like he's moved on and doesn't want to discuss it with you. If he was a man he would have been upfront with you, instead of making you think it was because of the baby you lost..how hurtful is that??? All these missed messages and bad timming messages are frustrating and upsetting, just leave it alone try to move on without this guy ,sounds cliche but really you're better off without an uncaring guy like that
2006-11-02 06:02:25 · answer #4 · answered by jojokiowa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, Im so sorry, that kind of happened to me, the guys make it awkward. Just let him go, he is a huge ball of emotional mess right now, and for him to do or say anything remotely hurtful to you at this time shows how much of a pr-ck he is. You will feel hurt, it is normal but you should be happy you can move on with no strings attached. Keep ya head up love.
2006-11-02 05:51:04 · answer #5 · answered by fan_wan :-) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u still love hiim u should let him know that and if he does not feel the same way then u should just leave him alone! i know that probably wont make u feel ne better but thats the best i can do in the mood im in right now but i kinda know how u feel (well except for the losing the baby part i mean cuz im only 14) well i really wish u the best of luck!
2006-11-02 05:46:38 · answer #6 · answered by sassysammy92 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think he is very childish u have just gone through a very difficult thing in ur life and he isnt doing a good job of being there for u are u sure that is someone u want in your life someone to add more pain than there has to be u shouldnt have to chase around for him and u dont have to explain that u didnt answer the phone u just lost a child dont let him be your main focus
2006-11-02 05:50:14 · answer #7 · answered by skhy47 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know what you are asking. It seems like the two of you were just playing phone tag. But why does it matter so much if he is your ex. Maybe you only got two answers becasue 1. nobody wants to read all that nonsense you wrote. And 2. Nobody knows what the hell you are asking.
2006-11-02 05:47:10 · answer #8 · answered by johnsonjrod 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be scared...be very, very scared. And run fast. You need help and he is a loser. You sound obsessed and that's just not healthy. Get over it - you haven't heard form him today??? So! Are you that wrapped up in another person that you can't go a day without speaking to them? I am so sorry for your loss - babies are amazing and I wish for you the chance to experience this miracle again...but with someone else. I'm not trying to be mean - so please don't be offended. You need to get a life of your own. One that doesn't rely so heavily on another person making you happy.
Let him go.
2006-11-02 05:46:36 · answer #9 · answered by Grá 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No wonder you only got two answers, I needed an interpreter to even get to a ? Was the ? Why did he say he wanted to talk when he doesn't call you. I'm so confussed. You both sound like 12 year old idiots.
2006-11-02 05:52:17 · answer #10 · answered by MKM 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sit down and have a conversation with him a bout whether you guys are going to work it out or move on. All of this back and forth stuff is childish. Either you want to be together or not.
2006-11-02 05:50:11 · answer #11 · answered by shaqmc21 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋