me and my ex have been arguin alot lately about several things and and one was becasue i lost our baby and he said some hurtful things. I left him alone cuz i was upset and a couple of days later he txted and appologised so i rang him. We had a nice convo and he said if i wanted i could call him back in a bit which was nice cuz i thought that we had cleared the air. Im feelin ill at the mo and spent the last couple of days in bed so i txted him yesterday sayin hey how are you, etc and said he didnt have to reply if he didnt want to, so there was no pressure on his part. He txt me last night sayin he had finish worked but my phone was in my room. Then when i went up to bed bout 11 i had 2 missed calls and a txt sayin that he had tried and i hadnt so he would leave it, this was bout 10:30. I then called him cuz i thought he might be awake and he didnt answer so i said i was sorry and that i was downstairs and that i fell asleep.
2006-11-02 05:32:36 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
15 mins later he then called sayin he had just woke up so i said why cuz he normally just leaves it till the next day so he hung up on me. i rang back to explain that i wasnt bein funny but thats what he normally does. so he then told me he was goin bak to sleep anyway. then this mornin i textin him sayin sorry bout last night but i feel really ill and dont need him ringin me and wakin me up just to tell me he has woken up and goin back to sleep. what i dont get is why was he so keen to talk to me. i havent heard from him at all today
2006-11-02 05:33:24 · update #1
just to ley you know that he has a new gf and everything, HE dumped ME and im the one who has had all the pain
2006-11-02 05:45:23 · update #2
drop ur egos- both of u
if u still love each other, sombody has to give it a push, it can be u, it can be him,or both of u.
2006-11-02 05:36:16 · answer #1 · answered by Amal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im sorry about your baby hon!
Give him some time...he's mourning the lose of a baby and he probably is feeling out of control...he doesn't know how to help you since you just lost a baby and so did he. When you feel better call him and tell him you two need to talk...then find a quite place to sit down and talk...tell him how your feeling and ask him how he is feeling...you will know after you talk if you two will work things out. Just give yourselves some time to heal!
2006-11-02 13:42:48 · answer #2 · answered by southernyankeeangel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like the problem is more of you than him. I think you are ignoring his needs and should do more than what you have did. Your just like all the rest, want too ignore your guy, then when you want something, you think he is supposed too lick your feet. Grow up and be there for your man or find a woman for yourself instead
2006-11-02 13:43:15 · answer #3 · answered by The Red Dragon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋