It was a good relationship, and it gets deeper, and we have sex to the top level... With oral and all. It was still a good relatioinship, but my girlfriend seems to be still the same. She should feel something different right? Why it seems to me that is doesnt matter at all?
2006-11-02 05:31:56 · 11 answers · asked by Jhep ^^, 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
this only happens when we girls have something on mind and do some thinking after it, some observe u after sex n if u act differently, meaning less passionate then u were during it it tends to b a sign that u wanted her just for that and dont really love her, thats when girls become distant after it,act like it never happened
2006-11-02 05:36:35 · answer #1 · answered by mery b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some girls/women have been hurt in the past by feeling something or more for a guy after they have sex, but the guy doesn't feel the same or anything. Perhaps she is in a protective mode. If she acts like it's not big deal, then if & when the guy dumps her she won't hurt so bad...
Or, she is a **** & sex is just sex & she really doesn't feel anything.
2006-11-02 05:39:44 · answer #2 · answered by More Lies & More Smoke Screens 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you are not aware, for gals sex is more towards emotional unlike guys which is more towards physical. To you, you might felt that you have perform well to satisfied her but what she need is tender, loving and care which you can show her during the process. Show her you love her and not focus too much on just SEX. Remember, Having Sex is different from Making LOVE.
2006-11-03 13:14:52 · answer #3 · answered by James B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she might have emotionally been at the same point she is now, so sex wouldnt have made a difference. if she was ready for it and knew what to expect then why should anything change?
and no matter what you do during sex, it doesnt mean its "top level" there is an emtional aspect that tops physical anyday
2006-11-02 05:37:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is why having sex before marriage is a bad idea. Too many pointless, needless questions about the relationship. Maybe sex with you didn't matter to her at all. Some girls don't value their bodies, emotions or sex very highly.
2006-11-02 05:35:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
I don't understand what you're asking.
I don't think the emotional "top level" of sex deals with "oral and all".
2006-11-02 05:34:46 · answer #6 · answered by Mrs. D 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe. but not usually. it depends on the girl. if shes a sl(_)t and doesn't really love you, yet she had sex with you, you're not the first and definitely not the last. she should feel a little different around you.
hope i helped.
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2006-11-02 05:42:41 · answer #7 · answered by Renee Gibson 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you think you're special because she sleeps with you? If she'll sleep with you, she'll sleep with anyone.
2006-11-02 05:35:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
your ob not that good in bed as she makes out, she prob fakes it
2006-11-02 05:36:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
do you mean love shoulddve been developted by now?
2006-11-02 05:35:53 · answer #10 · answered by awesome 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋