I sometimes feel lonely. I miss being held and making wild passionate love, It sucks bcause I am very sensous and I know I have alot of sex appeal, I get hit on alot, by guys , girls diff age groups but I just wont date. Am I paranoid?
2006-11-02 05:29:30 · 11 answers · asked by Lissy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes, I think you are paranoid. You're right to be weary about all the bad things out there, but to not date at all is just crazy! Dating someone doesn't mean you have to sleep with them. When it gets to that point, you and him go and get some blood tests done to make sure that there is nothing to be afraid of. Good luck!
2006-11-02 05:34:13 · answer #1 · answered by Tink 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well yes and no. I have been in relationships where we did not have sex until we both were tested. If a guy really likes you he will get tested and then retested later. But if you are afraid of diseases you have to pick a guy that will be faithfull to you. So the really cute guy thats are mostly out as they tend to be horrible sluts. I am not saying you should date ugly guys but more like a normal guy with high morals. You mentioned girls hit on you , do you like them too? If so that would be a safe place to start for now, at least give you someone to hold until you find the right guy.
2006-11-03 05:23:06 · answer #2 · answered by sphericaluniverse 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah something is seriously wrong with you. I think that you should seek medical attention for this. Look around at the rest of the world, everyone is dating and no one is dying from it, at least not very many at all are. Now look at yourself and think about how diffrent you are. Dont you see the diffrence ??? Something is wrong, maybe a psychiatrists could be very beneficial for you.
2006-11-02 05:34:35 · answer #3 · answered by The Red Dragon 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dating doesn't give you diseases, unprotected sex does. Use protection every time no excuses. You shouldn't let the possibility that you might have sex with one of these people keep you from getting to know if you even enjoy their company at all.
2006-11-02 05:32:29 · answer #4 · answered by GirlUdontKnow 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you are a bit paranoid.
No reason to not date. IF it starts to get hot and heavy you can alwasy ask about getting tested before you do the deed.
2006-11-02 05:32:01 · answer #5 · answered by Mike 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well there are all kinds of diseases but if you use protection then there is no problem with that.
But if your having sex then you are all kinds of risks but that shouldnt stop you it doesent stop anyone else. I think you might be alittle paranoid
2006-11-02 05:34:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't say that you are being paranoid, it can be very scary; just don't get around too much and use protection.
2006-11-02 05:33:33 · answer #7 · answered by SouthernPatriot 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you might just be TOO cautious. If you like someone, take a chance in getting to know them. Then decide if you want to take it farther, once you know more about them.
2006-11-02 05:34:16 · answer #8 · answered by J P 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes...otherwise become a Nun...passion is great...just use protection...germophobe
2006-11-02 05:34:18 · answer #9 · answered by loofa36 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Stay away from sleazy people and use protection.
Enjoy!!!! You only live once.
2006-11-02 05:32:45 · answer #10 · answered by driver 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋