To put it in Layman's terms, or to keep you teens in the loop: If the chick I'm with, is no longer the chick I want to be with, is it bad to dump her faster than I normally would just to start dating a different chick? As I get back into the dating game, I want to make sure I keep my options open, but I don't want to be a dick. Well, not a BIG dick, anyways.
2006-11-02 05:22:38 · 16 answers · asked by TheOneVersion2.0 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yes....yes you do have a big dick....
karen and lindsay told me!
2006-11-02 08:27:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
How long have you been with this chick that you don't want to be with? If it hasn't been long there should be no issues in dumping her to keep your options open. It's not like there are emotional ties to consider. Even if there were, dumpin her before you start dating the new chick would be the best that way you are not a cheater, which in my book is worse than being a dick. Not to say your current will be happy, but she should be content on the idea that you dumped her instead of cheating on her.
When re entering the dating scene, it is sometimes wise to try going on a date with one person, see how that works but make no commitment and move on to a date with another and so on unless you really find one you think you could have something more with. Then you try more causal dates and see where it leads from there.
2006-11-03 02:26:37 · answer #2 · answered by Social_D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i was with a girl for a long time and it seems liek the whole dumping process got dragged out over a long time and it was because she was a great girl, but not what i wanted and I hadn't met anyone else that seemed to be what i wanted, but once I met this other girl, she seemed to really make me happy and be what i wanted and I broke it off w/ my g/f because I wasn't happy anymore and she could could just tell. 2 weeks later I started casually dating that other girl. So i guess if your positive that you dont wanna be w/ your chick yes its ok to dump her and move on quick
2006-11-02 13:39:44 · answer #3 · answered by patrick U 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
F*ck dating ethics. Keep your options open. If the relationship ain't working for you, then it ain't working for you. The guy before the last guy I dated wouldn't put out, but he flirted with everything with a pulse. I had no problem trolling for a replacement prior to finally getting rid of him. He was a schmuck and it wasn't like he was really paying attention to me anyways.
2006-11-02 17:29:41 · answer #4 · answered by badkitty1969 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What are ethics but another set of words written by man.....
If it feels good, DO IT
And we only like big ***** around here One, I thought you knew that
2006-11-02 13:37:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Wheeeew, Thanks for explaining that one to me, you almost lost me for a second.....Nothing wrong with it babe, I have done it more than once the thing is you see you need to start dating women {and yes we are hard to find} that know that you are dating other people.
P.S. There's nothing wrong with having a big dick...LOL
2006-11-02 15:18:15 · answer #6 · answered by Karen 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I dont see a problem, altho I am a asshole so I dont know if you want advice from one but if you do then yeah hit the road jack and dont you come back no more no more no more
2006-11-02 13:33:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
keep the first chick on the back burner just in case the new one won't serve up the gash.
2006-11-02 13:35:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
How fast do you normally dump g/f's? If you don't want to be with her, don't prolong the "dumping". Be honest, set her free to find someone who does want to be with her and move on to your next conquest..
2006-11-02 13:25:51 · answer #9 · answered by notfreeinnh 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nah...string her along while you see two or three other women at the same time. It's the right thing to do.
2006-11-02 14:14:55 · answer #10 · answered by Optimistic 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No...better to do that than go behind your old girl's back
2006-11-02 13:28:51 · answer #11 · answered by loofa36 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋