my boyfriends dream is to have a three some! he asked me one day if we could have one! i didnt know what to say! it bothered me because it made me feel like im not good enough! i dont want to do it i cant imagin someone else touching me or him the thought just gives me goose bumps!
2006-11-02 04:39:19 · 25 answers · asked by kittykat19889 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dump him - you can do better! Find a guy who respects and honours you.
2006-11-02 04:40:22 · answer #1 · answered by radiancia 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I don't think you should do a three some. When he asked you to have a three some it means that you're not enough woman for him and you're not pleasing him well in the bed. Three some open other opportunity to have more problems in the relationship. respect your self first and if he doesn't respect the decision that you made he doesn't respect you. Things like that in the relationship you don't share especially there's body fluid being exchange and all the sexual transmitted disease. Another way to get him see it from your point of view, ask him if he would agree to have a three some with another man in the bed, from there he'll get the idea of how you feel.
2006-11-02 04:47:40 · answer #2 · answered by tjanetp 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the threesome. If my girlfriend wanted to bring another guy into the mix, I would have the same feeling as you do right now. If my girl wanted to bring another girl into it. I might feel great about the idea at first, but you cant help but think that maybe my girl is a lesbian and wants to transition into it. I would never bring up the idea unless she said something first. And I know I would never suggest another guy in the mix.
2006-11-02 04:43:59 · answer #3 · answered by Brad 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If my guy asked me for a threesome, I would be terribly hurt. If he loves me, he should not want to cheat. Threesomes are a form of cheating, unless all parties are just in it for the sex. I am not opposed to that, as long as no one gets hurt. In a committed relationship, the key word is "committed." If you two are serious and in love, he is not holding up his end of the deal. I'd say if he presses it, you should reconsider his ability to stay in a monogamous relationship.
2006-11-02 05:30:34 · answer #4 · answered by schweetums 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bi women are fairly common these days..
He wants to have you bring home a girl of your choice
to have a 3some with him..
It is a common male fantasy and with your always choosing
the girl, it usually causes no problems in the relationship..
It does not mean he does not love you or wants someone else.
Just like a BJ, it does not mean he does not like your P*ssy.
2006-11-02 04:44:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would get mad.
because that is something to be shared between 2 people and not have another involved. that just means that one of you has feelings for the third person, and are not completely and 100% faitfull tp the other.
Maby just tell your B/F that you would feel wierd with another person in bed with you.
2006-11-02 04:43:51 · answer #6 · answered by Mel051293 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, i am into that kind of stuff, i know its probably not right, but i would be okay with it as long as the other chick did not touch my man! Then there would be some punches thrown!!!! But if you are not comfortable with it hon, don't do it. If he keeps pushing, get rid of him cuz he will just end up cheating. Don't do it if you don't want to, your relationship will be ruined!!!!
2006-11-02 04:44:08 · answer #7 · answered by Hydimyangel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not kool man thats why me and my guy decieded we would not him and I could not handle someone elses hands on us. Plus it always brings problems in the relationship have had friends that ended there relationships because of it let him know how you feel and what it could cost.
2006-11-02 04:47:58 · answer #8 · answered by D'oh! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi kitty it seems like your boyfriend has forgotten the bond that binds us all fidelity. i am quite experienced in the wayof the world never done it myself but have seen the results of others.dont do it if you want to keep your self respect.single people can and do their own thing couples have a loyality to each other times have changed but that human bond between two people is special dont demean yourself or your relationship...if he insists leave him.
2006-11-02 04:49:15 · answer #9 · answered by rumplestilts 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My ex talked me into this. We are now divorced. My new fiance asked me the same thing and I told him "Sure, then as soon as the deed is done you won't mind moving out". That stopped his wanting me involved in a 3-some.
2006-11-02 04:42:57 · answer #10 · answered by GirlinNB 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure I would, this was not meant for 3 people, it was meant for the couple who wanted to share 2 bodies and one!
2006-11-02 04:45:24 · answer #11 · answered by moon_stars_sun2004 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋