people say if you love someone thats all you need and blah. how does great sex affect a relationship? if a girl had the best sex of her life with a guy and then she dated someone else who is a nice guy, but he was a fat disgusting looking guy, how does her new sex life play into her relationship compared to that past relationship with the other guy who gave her the best sex of her life? so i guess what im asking is how does sex with your partner affect your relationship?
2006-11-02 04:34:08 · 9 answers · asked by patrick U 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Great sex is more of a perk, I think for most women, it's not at the top of the list of importance in a relationship. The sex means nothing if the guy is a cheater, abusive, insensitive, and just clueless in other areas of the relationship. We try to find balance. That's what's important. Sex isn't everything.
2006-11-02 04:41:48 · answer #1 · answered by ♥Sweet♥ 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
A great relationship is about compatibility in as many facets as possible. Sex is an important part of a relationship, at least to the point that both partners need to be comfortable with what exists between them.
With a subject that involves as many complications as sex, the issue is usually far from completely physical. The violations of taboos or illicit actions can greatly enhance an individual sexual experience, but performing the same act, with the same person can lose the excitement when it's no longer forbidden or new.
I guess the short version is that great sex won't make a bad relationship better. Great sex can certainly make an already compatible relationship that much more rewarding.
2006-11-02 04:43:22 · answer #2 · answered by Javelinl 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Yes, sex definitely affects a relationship! I'm not saying that sex is everything because it's not....but if you don't have a great sex life w/ your partner, then there will always feel like something is missing. And some people might stray & go out & find great sex then which will cause problems later in the relationship. Sex definitely plays a big part in a relationship. Two people need to be sexually compatible...it truely makes a difference.
2006-11-02 04:47:10 · answer #3 · answered by godsmacksun23 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sex is important and a beautiful part of a mature relationship. But believing that it can make a relationship better is a pretty big mistake. You cannot live on love alone and there is so many other things in a relationship. What if one partner has something happen later in life and cannot perform for a while, does this make the relationship a bad one? I would hope not.
2006-11-02 04:55:24 · answer #4 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Great sex will make you stay even after the relationship is over. I can't get along with my bf at all and I can't leave because the sex is so good. We both know that it's been over for a long time because we fight every day like 10 times a day.
2006-11-02 04:45:55 · answer #5 · answered by hot like me 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think getting involved with a co-worker leads down a path of trouble, especially if you have a real career. I stay far, far away from my co-workers. I have a b/f and we have a great relationship. First of all, you messed up by getting her pregnant, that's what it sounds like. Take responsibility for your son, but let the poor girl know what you're feeling inside.. let her know that you're tired of her attitude and her low self-esteem is a major turn off and it has led you to other interests. Getting it all out in the open is a big weight off of your shoulders... wow and the mom lives with you? That's seriously going to ruin a relationship. I hope things work out, but do it like a real man and be honest. Try to work things out first.
2016-05-23 17:45:16 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best sex I ever had was with a selfish cold hearted complicated bi_ch. It made her bearable. But I've been much happier when the sex, while not as good,was with someone I genuinely like. In the end it's about your relationship, not the sex.
2006-11-02 04:45:54 · answer #7 · answered by brianlefttoe 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Sex starts in your mind , so if you are in love with this guy the sex can also be great with him .
2006-11-02 04:38:40 · answer #8 · answered by Geedebb 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well i do kind of think that sex makes the relationship a little more stable..
2006-11-02 04:38:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋