examples, anyone?
if you've done wrong, and things need to be fixed.. what are the best ways of trying to make things better?
cheers in advance
2006-11-02 04:21:10 · 9 answers · asked by kinetic belle 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i mean, in a sense how to make it up to your partner.
2006-11-02 04:24:53 · update #1
thank you for all your answers.
it's a little more complicated than that, though. we have discussed things, talked, and decided to be together, provided i fix things. i suppose a gesture of some sort.
that's it!
x
2006-11-02 04:41:58 · update #2
sorry, i just suppose it's a case of how do you build up trust in a relationship?
2006-11-02 04:54:44 · update #3
A relationship problem can not be solved without improving the way you both communicate with each other. You need to make him feel loved in the language he knows. This not always in words. You need to identify what his love language is and concentrate your expression of love in those areas. There is a language to express apology, you need to figure out which is his. Check out the links below.
There is no easy answer so expect to work really hard to regain his trust.
2006-11-02 18:45:11 · answer #1 · answered by John T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to ask yourself why you did what you did, and not come up with, because you did.... or last week you.... answers. Look at the greater cause of why you did what you did not the petty little things that happend just before, figure out how you can explain this in a calm adult way without allowing yourself to be distracted. The petty things are normal everyday life and if you give in to arguing about it you will just go round and round in circles. Never argue with emotions.
Then you need to admit to your partner you did wrong and stop there, no excuses
Then you need to apologise.
Then DISCUSS why you did what you did and remember this is not your chance to make excuses, this is your chance to fix things. be calm and mature.
2006-11-02 12:34:37 · answer #2 · answered by t 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There would be no reason to fix anything in a relationship if you did not break the bond of trust. You have to be open and honest plain and simple. If you choose to do something you knew your partner could not accept then you pay to play.Communication and trust is everything. If there is no trust then you do not have a relationship that will last. If was something you said to offend you should say I am sorry and go from there.
2006-11-02 12:33:21 · answer #3 · answered by bountyhunter101 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tie him up, talk to him for hours about what bugs you , he cannot run away and you can really nagandnag.
Easy to make a man feel good. Just say everything he wants to hear, agree to everything he says and have his meals on time. Be his personal slave forever that is the only thing that will make a man feel better.
2006-11-02 12:35:24 · answer #4 · answered by Duisend-poot 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Duct Tape!
No Duct Tape then Hockey Tape, if you do not have either then just add tequila or jack daniels it's makes people tend to forget!
2006-11-02 12:23:57 · answer #5 · answered by Paul M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talking and sorting through your problems if you are ment to be together then things will work out hope this helped x
2006-11-02 12:23:37 · answer #6 · answered by francho 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talking is a great way to solve problems although it depends on what you have done
2006-11-02 12:23:19 · answer #7 · answered by chic118118 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say your sincerely sorry and mean it, with roses always works for me, getting them I mean LOL.
2006-11-02 12:24:52 · answer #8 · answered by Boots4ACowgirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Deny everything admit to nothing!!!
2006-11-02 12:27:22 · answer #9 · answered by HIMSELF 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋