ok i made this question to get some advice and it got deleted!! what is wrong with it?! i mean seriously this is insane. i thought yahoo answers was some where to come and get advice! heres the ? ...
Ok, im dating this guy, hes really amazing, he plays guitar and drums and he is good at everything. not kidding u when i say EVERYTHING and hes insanely popular..lol...but anyways. i have been dating him for 3 months and i have liked him for 2 years and yea but im now finally dating him but we don't talk much, all we really do is makeout. but now i like this other guy and he likes me too. hes really sweet and amazing. hes halarious and i like him tons. but i like my bf tons to. and i don't know what to do cause i don't want to hurt my bf cause i know for a fact he likes me a LOT. but it would be perfect if i dated this other guy cause my best friend is dating his best friend...and hes popular too..but that doesn't really have anything to do with this but yeaa. ..please help!. ahh advice
2006-11-02 04:19:24 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
And were not sexually active ppl we just makeout, ppl keep having in there answers ooh ur sexually active stay with him, but were not sexually active.
2006-11-02 04:30:02 · update #1
annddd...its not his fault we make out all the time. its kinda mine. i like making out!! is that a crime? lol
2006-11-02 04:33:20 · update #2
go with your heart...period!
2006-11-02 04:21:09 · answer #1 · answered by blackratsnake 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off are you looking for popularity or for someone you enjoy being with and sharing things with. If your current boyfriend is only interested in idle chit chat and making out then he's looking for more contact and a score, then will dump you.
A true relationship should have something more like having a shared interest, talking about anything and everything, having fun and truly enjoying each others company. Popularity should have nothing to do with this and you have to look beyond that in order to seek out the right guy.
2006-11-02 04:36:33 · answer #2 · answered by trojan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hanging around a guy that you just make out with is NOT a relationship. You need to grow up and start looking for someone that treats you well, who shares your values, who will be there for you when you need them.
I have a female friend that was crazy about this guy and she thought everything was great but, when her doctor told her that she might have cervical cancer, the loser dropped her like a hot potato. At the time she most needed her boyfriend to be emotionally supportive and BE THERE for her, he dumped her and started dating an attention deficit disordered jeweler!
You're just looking for a good time, fun and laughs but no substance. If so, then just date a bunch of guys and make it clear both to the one you're already seeing and the one you just started seeing that you're not in an exclusive relationship so they have no expectations of you being faithful.
2006-11-02 04:30:03 · answer #3 · answered by The Divorce Guru 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have no clue why this was deleted before unless you elaborated on one of the "great" things he's good at (wink,wink)
Anyway, Do not date anyone exclusively, you're too young and by the sounds of it unsure of what you really want. Tell your boyfriend that you'd like to date others and see how "other guy" pans out, but do keep in mind that your boyfriend will be set free to date whom he wants and he may find some girl who does know what she wants.
Realistically do you believe that he likes you soooo much when all you do is make out? Come on young one! Anyway,Good luck!
2006-11-02 04:25:55 · answer #4 · answered by lcsotter 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There was nothing wrong with your question I don't know why it got deleted, Questions that should be deleted are ones I have heard like "I'm 25. Is it alright to marry a 14 year old? We already have 2 children together!"
As for your question try dating both! JK
Fallow your heart!
2006-11-02 04:33:34 · answer #5 · answered by Angel M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well how did it get deleted ? But if you are sexually active with the guy you are dating now why would you want sombody else , Yeah your young and wanna get with the most popular Guy , But come on your sexually actiive stick with the ine Guy!! It seems tome that you are getting bored with the othier guy so hey Get with the othier one to , Just to be safe Hahaha!!
2006-11-02 04:24:34 · answer #6 · answered by Tabby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hunny your like what....14? Date whoever you are interested in! You are not to a point in your life where you are looking for a long term relationship and chances are these boys aren't either! Have fun and get to know what you want in a guy by spending time with more than just one of them!
2006-11-02 04:23:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's mor to life than making out...you need someone who will take you places, do things with you and be there besides make out time...dump him and try the other guy...you're young and there's alot more candy to taste before you settle down.
2006-11-02 04:22:52 · answer #8 · answered by Betty Boop 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would go for the one that wants to spend quality time with you, if all he wants to do is make out and not talk much then that's all he wants, and what do you have in common if you don't talk? pick the one that treats you better and pays real attention to you.
2006-11-02 04:25:00 · answer #9 · answered by smurfette_ftwayne 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
contact yahoo through your email, there was a hacker going around deleating and sending emails saying you got voilated, yahoo said they are working on the problem and that if you send them an email they can give your points back to correct the problem!
2006-11-02 04:24:37 · answer #10 · answered by seilygirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh decisions decisions.... give the other guy a go! but also put yourself in your bf shoes as well he may start dating someone new and how would you feel knowing that he is GOOD at EVERYTHING!
2006-11-02 04:24:04 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋