I am dating this guy now and we are in the stage of getting to know each other and spending time together. I haven't told my sis who is my best friend about him yet because shse is so protective of me and i dn't feel like being questioned and its hard to get to know a person with alot of people in your business. He workd out of state and will be leaving soon so i'm trying toget all my time in with him , but my sis just moved in to a new house and she wants my time as well how do i balance out the two with out hurting someone. My other sis tried to help but she is at loss for answeres too. bottom line i don;t want him to meet everyong n my family yet we just want to keep thngs simple and keep family out so we can get to know each other. What should i do
2006-11-02 03:50:41 · 8 answers · asked by Sexy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He is not the problem. He lives 45 min from me i see her everyday . so our time is the weekend. and he works out of state and is gone for at least 2 months. i just want to be able to keep him to myself for a while before i introduce him to my family.
2006-11-02 03:57:11 · update #1
First, are you sure you want to invest time into a long distance relationship, because those hardly ever work.
Then, if you want to keep it simple, keep it simple. You have a life too and family has to understand that. Yes, help when you can, but never forget to do you. You've got things to do places to be and people to see, and they've got to learn to respect your privacy. When you are ready to share then you share. Let them know that when you are ready you will let them in.
2006-11-02 03:59:35 · answer #1 · answered by Carrie 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Telling her your busy probably won't work, huh? Come clean and tell her you have a "new friend" that isn't going to be in town for very long & you'll catch up with her in a few days. If she pushes you to tell her who, what, & why, just say, when I make it over I'll give you all the details - promise! The suspense will kill her, but she will have to wait! If she's mad at you afterwards, too bad. She will get over it that's the glory of family, you will always forgive each other and remain tight! Meanwhile, you got your chance to have fun doing what YOU want!
2006-11-02 03:56:39 · answer #2 · answered by T. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell your sis that he is a good friend and is going soon so you will spend some time with him. if your sis becomes over protective and wants to meet him, then tell your sis that if you introduced your family now your boyfriend will get the wrong idea. he will think that you are moving too soon or something. and thats why you dont want to introduce her to him. i hope your sis will understand. good luck.
2006-11-02 03:59:08 · answer #3 · answered by atahsina 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First things first
Boyfreidns come and go family always stay...
But if you are really seriuos abotu this guy
spend your days with your sis and your evening with your man..and it should work out..just tell your sis that you have plans in the evening with some friedns so you can hlep her during hte day..
2006-11-02 03:55:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him what is up and be with him as much as possible without denying your sister. If he is a good guy then he will understand.
2006-11-02 03:54:28 · answer #5 · answered by dmxdragon2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take good care! Pray, and you'll receive the best answer ever;
2006-11-02 03:55:14 · answer #6 · answered by tatal_nostru2006 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cannot have your cake and eat it to. Chose the family.
2006-11-02 03:55:28 · answer #7 · answered by getalong 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
family is always there and will always be there, BF come and go
family knows best
2006-11-02 03:52:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋