he has lied and acted cold hearted at times. he has gawked at other women while we were together out in public, he djs on the side and has taken every holiday and most weekends for himself, he is always going to his place of residence to pick up daily clothing. which he works not far from my home but he will drive 30 min to his home to get clothes instead of just bringing extra clothes with him if he knows he will be staying at my house. i think its just a way to get out of the house. also these parties that he djs makes me wonder who is he meeting. at the same time he says he loves me and want to make this work. but he wants to come to my home every night and then come and go when he likes. well should i let this happen and im doing something wrong in this picture. i have trust issues with him. so i was thinking maybe we should seperate if he just wont try and make this work. what do you think?
2006-11-02 03:40:26 · 12 answers · asked by eaglestraces123 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
How do you know that he is driving all that way just for clothes?How do you know that he doesnt have clothes in the car or somewhere else?I think he may be using you for a spot while he is around.I have a house in the city & one is the country 30 minutes away.It is very convinient to still have the city house to stop at while in the city.Why do you never go to these parties?And he lies & is cold hearted & doesnt do holidays & weekends.And gawks at other chics.Follow your instincts,,they will never fail you.Loose him.
2006-11-02 03:50:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a male friend whom I really love, he just wants to be friends but we sleep together. He treats me like crap. He know that I am a jealous person so he stares at every women he can get his eyes on. He talks about other woman and that really annoys me.
My point is here is, that I can tell that you have feelings for this person and I feel it will be hard to let him go. You as well as me, do not deserve this. I feel a bit of space could help you think more ratiionally.
Good Luck
2006-11-02 03:45:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't. You need your space to work things out and it already sounds like you have made up your mind. Ask yourself- would you spend the rest of your life like this? Trust is huge and no one can have a good relationship without it.
2006-11-02 03:45:40 · answer #3 · answered by Not anyone you know 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't be so naive. He is using you and you are falling for it. Dump him and find someone who really cares for you. If he loved you he would never treat you like that.
Love is more than a word. Once you dump him and find someone else you will realize what a fool he has taken you for.
2006-11-02 03:45:11 · answer #4 · answered by grudgrime 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He needs to stay at his own place. If he has keys to your place, have the locks changed and move your spare key to somewhere else if he knows where you keep it. Also, he is not allowed at your house unless you are there.
2006-11-02 03:47:27 · answer #5 · answered by eehco 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would definetly not have him in the house while you guys decide what you are going to do. He is taking advantage.
2006-11-02 03:47:18 · answer #6 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Only if you want sex. That is all he is good for right now. He seems selfish.
2006-11-02 03:44:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
change the locks and tell him to get lost he is using you!
2006-11-02 03:43:03 · answer #8 · answered by Eyes of Green 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes it\'s very important ,don\'t let him go
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