okays it's been a year and he is still after me ???
i already got in many fights with my boyfriend because he keeps on sending mesages and calling me!!
what should i do ? and why do guys do this i men get all hooked on me i am just a normal girl nothng special and i really hate this. it is messing up my relationship with my boyfriend and i really love him..........
2006-11-02 03:40:04 · 19 answers · asked by *********** 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Apparently, you havent blocked his calls. Do this and if it continues, tell him your gonna get a restraining order on him if he doesnt stop.
BTW, keep those messages to show proof of his harassment.
2006-11-02 03:42:30 · answer #1 · answered by JC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop answering the phone calls, do not respond to his messages, maybe even change your number, let him know that you are not interested. I went thru this about a year ago and understand how you feel. You just have to be very persistent and do not give in to your ex-boyfriend so that he gets the hint. I had to do all this that I just listed and it finally ended. I ended up getting very direct and mad at my ex and he finally got the clue that I was not interested. I let him know that he was being very disrespectful towards me and my new boyfriend, that I was not interested in him at all and that I wanted him to leave me alone. He had his chance and screwed up.
2006-11-02 03:46:07 · answer #2 · answered by Jennifer W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you should get your boyfriend to answer the phone, when he calls and tell your boyfried to tell him to back off and never call again or get one of you guy friends to do that, or just call cops on him and your problems will be solved.
2006-11-02 03:46:55 · answer #3 · answered by Life and time, we are given on earth is amazing 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Use "call block".....easy. Or don't answer the phone. You are letting this mess up your current relationship...it's not the guy calling.
2006-11-02 03:43:12 · answer #4 · answered by voandginger 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have had the same truble. and i can tell you it wont be easy.but if you have tried every thing. you may have to tell him if he contacts you agian you will have no choice but to file charges on him.and if you arre trying to keep him has a friend it wont work. you will loose the new boy freind. i no because been there done that and it hert every one invalved.
2006-11-02 03:47:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
get you phone number changed...guys usually do this because they are jealous to see you happy with someone else..He is trying to destroy things on purpose...Hurry up and change your phone number and if he tries to come to your house call the police and get a restraining order.
2006-11-02 03:43:39 · answer #6 · answered by goodies100 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Change your phone number!!. Some guys do this because they are insecure. My ex told me that if we ever broke up, not to have sex with any other guys ever! He's jus crazy!
2006-11-02 04:14:50 · answer #7 · answered by Tash 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mine still calls after eight years. Tell him to stop, or have your boyfriend tell him. Better yet, get his number blocked.
2006-11-02 03:42:58 · answer #8 · answered by tinamaries43 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Curse him out and say "mother ****** if you dont stop calling my ***damn phone i will call the police and tell them all the **** you've been harrassing me with!!!","now ***** if you want to go to prison you should stop calling me and get a damn life and move the **** on!!!!!!!!!!" how was that???
2006-11-02 03:48:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a restraining order.
2006-11-02 03:41:50 · answer #10 · answered by WonderWoman 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋