Is checking your GF cell phone wrong?

Question

If you think she is cheating on you?

Answer 1

yes, it's wrong. probably not as wrong as her cheating on you, but, like momma always said, two wrongs don't make a right. if you think she's cheating on you, she probably is, so instead of stressing out about it, just confront her. if you ask her straight out i think you'll be able to tell in her eyes or her reaction whether your intuition was right. snopping is just gonna give her a reason to dump you, therefore turning you into the dumped rather than the dumpee--wouldn't you rather have more fun dumping HER?

Answer 2

Yes!!!! If u dnt trust tht person, then dnt be with them. A relationship is based on trust & communication. Also what makes u think tht she cheating on u. Do ur friends notice a chg in her? These are the questions u need to ask urself. U have the answer within. Good Luck!!!

Answer 3

I can understand why you're doing it, but I still think it's wrong. Since you think she's cheating, be upfront with her. Don't accuse her of cheating, but let her know that you suspect she is and give her the reasons why you suspect it. If she says she isn't cheating, but you don't believe her, then that's a serious trust issue and you might not want to be with her anyway since you can't trust her.

Answer 4

If you do it behind her back then its wrong. If you do it in her presence then i don't think its that bad. plus you can always gauge her reaction when you take/ask for her phone. If she willingly gives it to you, then nothing is going on(or she deleted the evidence), so there may not even be a need for you 2 actually check. But if she comes up with shady excuses, then you should bring it up with her.

Answer 5

yes and no! for one its invading their privacy but then again my ex-boyfriend used to make me feel like i was so0o0o0oo0o lucky to have him until i looked through his cell phone and found all sorts of texts from other girls...so if you have a suspicion then hell yeah go for it...just dont get caught and dont take some things the wrong way because that can cause a brakeup over just a friend

Answer 6

Look at the itemized phone bill once and then if there is nothing on there then drop it. She can delete it off the cell phone. But if you find nothing then leave it be.

Answer 7

only if you get caught

pff lol and whats with all these answer "just straight up ask her"

yeah, like she's gonna say "Whoa, you got me!" asking her is just gonna piss her off. dont make any accusations. talk to her a little bit about the guy if you know how he is, dont sound worried or like youre accusing her just act non-chalant and see how she responds if she gets really nervous or handles it well. just dont ever accuse her or sound like youre accusing her unless you have good evidence or your relationship will hit the rocks in seconds. dont get yourself all worked up and paranoid either, you dont know if she is cheating on you or not and just because she called a guy or two doesnt mean she is.

Answer 8

Yes, it's her phone and you are invading her privacy. Regardless if you think she's cheating or not, you need to find another way to find out like ask her.

Answer 9

No, relationships are supposed to be based on trust. My hubby can check up on me any time he wants and I can check up on him anytime I want the only problem is I have spoilt a few suprises by going through his emails and celphone messages.

Answer 10

Yes, it is wrong. Trust is something you MUST have in a relationship for it to work. You can't always be sneaking around behind each other's backs. If you are suspicious, then confront her about it, don't be a snoop.