He doesn't even get HARD?

Question

He has a way of not making me feel good enough. Like saying "When I look at you it does nothing for me" or "I would rather beat off than sleep with you" and than to top it off he likes all the porn and stripper crap. when I get upset about it he says oh I just say those things to get you angry. Well since he has said that I have really low self esteem when it comes to him, I am really insecure so I don't want him to look at me naked like he used to. So after telling me how much he didn't mean those words, he doesn't even get an erection when we fool around or if I touch him there. Its like what the heck is wrong with me? He is not very big down there so maybe he can't feel it as well. I don't know? Help me figure it out please. Here are some photos of me.... Tell me whats wrong!!!!!!!
I am the one in the black
http://i69.photobucket.com/albums/i73/and4eva_luv10683/mensyd.jpg
Here is a modeling pic
http://i69.photobucket.com/albums/i73/and4eva_luv10683/63989600.jpg

Answer 1

It sounds like he may be gay and almost ready to come out of the closet. You are pretty there is nothing wrong with you it is him. Dump his azz and get you a real man who has a big d*ck and can't keep his hands off of you.

Answer 2

May I ask why you are with him? He treats you like crap and you stay. I have a good idea why he does this. He's trying to bring your self esteem down low enough so you won't leave him for someone who will treat you good. He knows that if he says this sh*t long enough that you'll start to believe it (like you are) and you won't think you deserve anyone better. That for some reason, you deserve what you're getting. I'll tell you right now that you are a very attractive girl and you will not have any problem finding someone who will treat you like the goddess you are. As for him not even getting hard, I'm sorry to ask but is he gay? I'm serious. He has to be! I'm a straight woman and I even found you hot!! Hon, leave this guy to his porn and find someone who'll treat you right. Good luck!

Answer 3

The only thing wrong with you is your taste in men. You have no idea how jealous I am after looking at those pictures! lol! I'm not in the best shape - I've put on 2 stone after having 2 kids and have more cellulite than I care to mention, but what matters to me is the fact that my partner always says he finds me attractive, even if he doesn't really mean it! He would never say things like that! The way you look you could get any man, so why are you with him???

Answer 4

I have not ever gone to a profile to look up past questions before answering until now. It sounds like you have put up with way more than most people would. Have you wondered why you do it? It doesn't matter what you look like, nobody deserves to be treated the way he is treating you. If you need help to see that, call a help hot-line and talk to some one who can guide you to some support. You deserve better than this - not because of your looks, but because you are a person. You count. You matter. You should not be made to feel like you don't. You don't need him. You would be better off being on your own than with someone who treats you the way he treats you.
Don't waste precious time - leave him now and get on with a more positive life.

Answer 5

When You party till your hair smells like smoke, you have no idea where the clothes You're wearing came from, and You don't know how on earth it got to be three days later, that's a party. I lived in an apt when I was younger with my best friend who was a drug dealer at that time. I remember dozens and dozens of wild roaring drunk and stoned parties where I didn't have a clue who 80% of the people at it were, needless to say the furniture didn't thrive in that environment. I don't know whether the last straw for me was the idiot that thought pouring a bottle of vodka into the aquarium was a really good idea cause the "fish need to get lit too", or the idiot I caught feeling my unconscious fiancee up, a scene quite reminiscent of Jesus clearing the Pharisees out of the temple ensued after that one, I know that. Anyway Zacho, You have fun, but for Me, I'm kinda glad that's all over. I'd say Party by Boston. BA: Geeze, it'd be an awful long list. **PJ, Amen to Your amen, brother

Answer 6

eva;

Judging from your pics. there is nothing wrong with you. If anything he has some difficulties and issues as far as intimacy and affection. It could stem from his youth. You must not be made to feel insecure in any way, by anyone. You are a beautiful attractive woman, I beleive any man in his right frame of mind would appreciate such a beautiful human being by their side. Hang in there. Maybe it's time to move on from this person?

Cold runner

Answer 7

Well after reading what you wrote about the situation, and seeing the pictures, he must be gay and just not know how to tell you, or doesn't know it himself yet. You shouldn't have self esteem issues babe, you are smokin'!

Answer 8

Good gawd woman, if that is really you...you are making ME rather 'hard' not to get excited down there

Answer 9

there is nothing wrong with you .you are a beautiful girl maybe some thing is wrong with him !my man likes porn and i really think the reason why your man doesn't get hard when you play with him is because he has previously beat his meat watching his porn and cant get it up .............has happened to my man so maybe that's what it is ............but if it continues get rid of him girl and find your self a better one your pretty enough ........good luck

Answer 10

The only problem with you is that your putting up with his crap. There is nothing wrong with how you look, and even if there was it wouldn't excuse him for treating you the way he does. Why are you even wasting your time with someone who treats you this way? You deserve to be with someone who respects you and raises you up, not some one who tears you down.