I am 26 year old female with a goody two shoes image...I want to change that to a wild and crazy, naughty girl

Question

image that guys like...I want suggestions...I know this will be hard and embarrassing for me to do, but I need to do it...I got to get out of myself...I am not same person inside as people see on the outside...What type of clothes should I wear, what type of cigarettes should I smoke...I am even willing to get a small tattoo...suggestions please.

Answer 1

Later in life:--- it is unlikely that you would regret the "good girl" image, but you could very well regret the "wild, crazy, naughty" image.

BE YOUR TRUE SELF - and don't push it to the extreme just to acquire another image (which you may not really want in the long term).

Answer 2

You can have multiple sides to who you are. You can be a "good" girl but still have a "wild" side. Changing your image will NOT improve your life or get the guys you want. Do you know what YOU WANT? Because when you *pretend* to be someone else, you will lose sight on WHO you are and WHAT you want in life. An image is just that - the surface. There is so much more to a woman than her clothes, hair, makeup, etc. It's what's inside - her beliefs, her sensitivity, intelligence, humor that make men flock to her. You have to be confident in who you are and LOVE yourself before you can expect any man to truly love you. It's cliche but it's true.

If you really want to have an edgy image - just have fun with it. Dress up when you go out. Wear outfits that you normally don't wear. Don't SMOKE...or do drugs to get that BAD girl reputation. You can be wild without being slutty. But remember that WHO you are is more important that the image.

This might just be a phase too so don't do anything too dramatic that you will regret. Alot of people take time to feel comfortable with who they are.

Good luck!!

Answer 3

the easiest way start this is to test out your new look somewhere no one knows you. even if its driving to the next town for the day, it gives you a chance to be whomever you want without worrying about what people think. then you can be more prepared to be that way with your friends.
you can destroy old clothes by cutting off sleeves, backs, or putting a few slashes anywhere to show some skin. wear brightly colored bras with any sort of black. big black boots will give you that rebel strut.
get a fresh haircut, something with lots of layers so your hair can fly around when you headbang! try dying a few strips of hair a wild color. people know you're wild when you're willing to dye. it's eyecatching and no one will ever ignore you.
dark eyes, dark nails. cut the fingers off your gloves. never smoke anything menthol or clove. that makes you look like a pretty girl trying to be bad. try a peircing instead of a tat, they come off easier, and even another hole in the ear makes you feel a little badass.
read bi*ch magazine, and listen to the lunachicks.
remember, you're the rebel. f*** anyone who says you cant do it. you don't f***ing care what anyone thinks.

Answer 4

I would first start off small, get a new circle of friend, hang out more, and change what you wear. If you wear turtle necks and pants wear a more revealing top and a skirt. Go to the mall and get your face made up in a 'sexy' everyday way and start wearing that. Start speaking your mind more. Next step go to bars and clubs with co-workers. If you don't smoke now you don't have to start. If you are sure that you can live with a tattoo for the rest of your life or can get the money to have it removed if you get sick of it then either get a small butterfly on your lower stomach/upper thigh area, or something in the middle of your lower back. Good Luck!

Answer 5

You haven't recently seen the movie "Grease," have you? ;)

Seriously, do not change yourself in any way that isn't true to who you are. You will be miserable if you base your image on what *others* expect of you rather than what *you* are as an individual apart from others' opinions of you. This might not be something you can appreciate at 26, but take it from a 40-year-old, I would not trade the serenity and tranquility that comes from being who I am regardless of what others think for all the popularity in the world. Be *You*, because there's only one of you on this planet and if you change you, well, the world will have lost an opportunity to see you for who you really are.

Answer 6

You can't dress up like a "rebel" and instantly become one. It's a state of mind and a way of life. Loosen up by all means, but don't think you can pick and choose elements of a person you're not and then instantly become that person once you have got the outfit. Be yourself, you'll only come unstuck if you don't and you could end up in some unpleasant situations. If you say you're wild and crazy, people will expect you to act it and you might not like what that means.

Answer 7

OK, at 26 the urge to want to be more wild and crazy is normal, But one piece of advice, Don't save that inner desire for more intimate times, A lady in public and a Tramp in bed will do more faster than the tramp in public. And you can enjoy that wilder side with someone who you care about and trust, not the whole world.

Answer 8

Get a new haircut. Get some new clothes. Wear more makeup. Instead of smoking regular cigarettes smoke cigarillos. You'll instantly look like a rebel.

Answer 9

Stick with what you know. Who knows the right guy might just like that in you, be yourself. The wild & crazy lifestyle is only fun for a while, then you start feeling traped in it, having to preform. It's hard to repair your reputation.

Answer 10

Just go out and do some of the things you really want to do, BUT, by all means....DO NOT SMOKE, i, as a guy, will not even think of going out with a smoker......sorry......