My daughters friend might be pregnant. women only please.?

Question

I am a mother that tries to stay within her own business, i like to talk to the girls, and i perfer to have them come to me and ask things, then ask someone who might not know.
Ive known this girl Jamie, for six years, and she is almost fourteen, she fears she might be pregnant, and does not want to take a test until she knows a little more, well, im not
a doctor and really cant say much about pregnancy due to the fact that my children were both premature, she wants to know the following,
-What do pregnant stomachs feel like
-Some symptoms teens will have
-The chances of her being pregnant if he pulled out, and she was on her period
-If pregnant women get white discharge regularly

Answer 1

every womns body is different and each one shows a different pregancny sign. best thign to to is take her to a free clinic that way there is no trace of her seeing a docotor and see if she is really pregannt. and if she is not maybe you should sit down and give her ter sex talk.

Answer 2

Withdrawal works about 80% of the time, the chances of getting pregnant while menstruating are small as well. So I would say she is *probably* not pregnant.

Some women experience a change in discharge when pregnant, some do not. If the discharge smells funny/bad/different she needs to go to a doctor right away. While the risk of pregnancy may be small the risk of STDs is not.

Some women feel pregnant right away, some do not. Some are hungrier, some a sick, some have to pee a lot, some do not. Some have tender breasts, some do not. Teens experience pregnancy the same as adults. It is also different depending how far along she is.

If you are comfortable get a pregnancy test for her and let her use it at your home. Once she knows she is (hopefully) not pregnant encourage her to go to a doctor or Planned Parenthood (which is confidential). She will hopefully she will be more willing once she knows she isn't pregnant. She needs to get tested for STDs, she needs good info on protecting herself. Planned Parenthood usually sells birth control (pills and condoms) for less than elsewhere with less embarrassment.

Best of luck

Answer 3

First off if she thinks she might be pregnant she needs to go to planned parenthood that will give her the information she needs and keep it confidential because if she is pregnant she needs to be taking care of herself and the baby and start deciding where she is going to go from there..keeping the baby, adoption, etc. When you are in your first trimester you can't really feel any changes in your stomach, you may have morning sickness which can really occur at any time of the day, it is not until about 3 or 4 months that you can feel the baby..it will feel like a butterfly is fluttering around. You can get pregnant even if he pulled out because men pre-ejaculate before they finish..and this pre-ejaculation does contain a small amount of sperm. I am not entirely sure about getting pregnant on your period..it all depends on her ovulation cycle. I got pregnant with my first child when I was 17 so I understand how she may be feeling a little scared and doesn't know what to do...But it is very important that she takes a test and finds out if she is pregnant so she can do what is best for her.

Answer 4

Its a shame, shes so young and having sex already. I hope that she is not pregnant but I also hope that if she is not, you can tell her the dangers of not using a condom at this day and age and if she must have sex she MUST ALWAYS use one and not only for pregnancy protection.
I am surprised you dont know the signs of early pregnancy and teens will not have any different symptoms.
If she was on her period and has a regular cycle, than its unlikely that she has become pregnant.
White discharge is also a symptom of yeast, she needs to go to the gynocologist if she has itching or smell.
Its sad because she is so young and trying to act like an adult.
Tell her pulling out is not always safe and whats she going to do if one day he says ''ooops sorry, didnt get out in time..''.
Its good that she talks to you but I hope that some day if my daughter needs to talk she will come to me and not someone elses mother.

Answer 5

I'm sorry, but having premature children has nothing to do with knowing how pregnancy works. So I wonder if you're more of the child than the mom...anyways, here's the answer to your questions:

What do pregnant stomachs feel like SEEMS HARD TO BELIEVE YOU DON'T KNOW THIS, UNLESS YOUR CHILDREN WERE BORN OUTSIDE YOUR WOMB. EVERY WOMAN IS DIFFERENT, AND THE STOMACH USUALLY DOESN'T FEEL ANY DIFFERENT UNTIL FARTHER ALONG IN THE PREGNANCY, YOU SHOULD KNOW THIS, AT LEAST. ;)

-Some symptoms teens will have-WHY WOUD TEEN SYMPTOMS BE DIFFERENT THAN WOMEN'S? PREGNANCY IS PREGNANCY. PERIOD. AND THAT WILL DEPEND, SHE MAY BE NAUSEOUS, DIZZY, SHE MAY VOMIT, OR SHE MAY HAVE NO SYMPTOMS AT ALL UNTIL LATER ON IN THE PREGNANCY.


-The chances of her being pregnant if he pulled out, and she was on her period- SLIM TO NONE. AGAIN, YOU DIDN'T KNOW THE ANSWER TO THIS ONE? HARD TO BELIEVE, SORRY. ;)

-If pregnant women get white discharge regularly- WHITE DISCHARGE COULD MEAN SHE'S NOW OVULATING. HOW WERE YOUR DISCHARGES WHEN YOU WERE PREGNANT? I KNOW I HAD SOME, BUT IT ALL DEPENDS ON THE GIRL/WOMAN

Hope this helps!

Answer 6

Well first off pulling out isnt safe at all, second of all being on your period reduces the risk of becomming pregnant but of course the risk is still there. Next id be concerned about this white discharge. Maybe she has a STD. Next you need to find out when her last LMP was, is she regular? When does she expect her next one....if this is something that just recently happened, then i would say her stomach shouldnt feel like anything cause it would be WAY to soon. You will normally not even know you are pregnant until about your 2nd month, of closer to a few weeks after you miss your period. Stress will cause your period to be late, so she needs to try and relax. Honestly i would say no shes probably not pregnant.

Answer 7

the pull out method is NOT birth control, therefore, odds of getting pregnant using this method are pretty good, ejaculatory fluids are present before male orgasm and teen boys are very fertile IF she was on her actual period it is unlikely she is pregnant, we ovulate about 10 days after our periods BUT all women are different
a pregnant stomach feels like a basketball, a tennis ball if she is a few weeks
teens may have, along with grown women, sore breasts, frequent urination, a heightened sense of smell, nausea, mood swings, acne, digestive problems, and no period
white discharge? sounds like a yeast infection and I have heard that hormone changes can trigger a yeast infection
take her aside, talk to her about honesty with her mother, tell her to visit her local health department NOT a Planned Parenthood, for a pregnancy test

Answer 8

Pregnant stomachs in the beginning feel like normal stomachs. Pregnant teens would have the same symptoms as pregnant women, tender swollen breasts, late period, etc.
Yes, you can still get pregnant if you pull out, the chances are less though.
She needs to take a test and then she'll know for sure. Better to know than to try to guess for the next month or so.

Answer 9

your stomach will start to get hard.
same symptoms as any one else
just because he pulled out does not mean that he did not discharge just a little in her.
if she was on her cycle then there is a 50% chance
some do get the discharge it really depends on the person

Answer 10

even if you had premature babies you would know all them answers so i imao this is a young girl who is worried of being pregnant so my advice is go get checked and if you r a young girl stop doing what your doing before you do end up pregnant.

this is just my educated guess sorry if i am wrong but i doubt it.

Answer 11

You are a woman that had 2 pregnancies and you don't the know these answers? Premature babies or not, you would have experienced these things.

I really suggest you do not get involved except to advise her to visit planned parenthood.