i am feeling very cheated now a days. My gf says her parent are very understanding but now she is saying that her parents are very eager to do marriage of her. now she is forcing me to marry her but i have already told her that i cant marry her before 2 years. now she is eotionally blackmailing me for marriage she is telling me to marry her either she will commit suicide.
please help me i am not getting any thing now.what i shold do
2006-11-02 02:45:25 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Call her parents and tell her she is threating suicide. Leave it to them.
2006-11-02 02:47:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
The best thing you can do for this girl is to give her the number to a Head Doctor. Don't let a woman blackmail you into a marriage that is doomed to fail. What happens next if you marry her and she don't get her way is she gonna threaten suicide again? I would break off all contact with her and never call again. Do you really want to be with a person who would resort to emotional blackmail to get their way?
2006-11-02 10:53:02 · answer #2 · answered by Daddy Big Dawg 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u seriously shouldnt do anything that u dont wanna do or anything that doesnt feel right. she shouldnt pressure u in to anything or blackmail u for that matter. and i've seen girls say that they were gonna commit suicide if their boyfriend left them. and when the guy left she didnt commit suicide. she could b bluffing. if she doesnt have any suicidal tendencies i wouldnt worry about her actually doin it. girls like to threaten guys and thats all there is to it. so if u dont think that she'll actually do it then dont worry about it. but u should explain to her that u dont wanna get married so soon. gettin married is a very serious decision and u should have time to think about it which she isnt givin u any. i would also explain to her about the whole thing about u not wantin to get married before 2 years. since u guys havent been together that long then i would worry about everything changin if u got married. and i would really think and wonder if she is the girl for u.
2006-11-02 11:08:29 · answer #3 · answered by smalls8802 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pray to God or whoever you believe is a higher power and ask that he take care of her. Then run like hell from her she is a nut and life with her would be one giant emotional rollercoaster ride all the time, nothing but drama. Think about it not married and she is already trying to manipulate and control you. Darling you deserve much better.
2006-11-02 11:18:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
LISTEN TO ME AND I'M SURE EVERYONE HERE IS GOING TO AGREE WITH THIS..... DUMPED THAT NUTCASE...SHE IS CRAZY.... IF YOU ARE NOT READY FOR MARRIAGE THEN DO NOT MARRY HER.... SHE IS A MANIPULATING CRAZY FRUIT CAKE.. IF YOU GIVE IN TO THIS SHE IS GOING TO RUN THE WHOLE THING YOUR LIFE, THE MARRIAGE,EVERYTHING THAT IS IMPORTANT TO YOU SHE IS GOING TO RUN.. AND IM SORRY I JUST HAPPEND TO BELIEVE THAT EVEN THOUGH BEING MARRIED IS TO BECOME ONE,ONE SHOULD MAINTAIN INDIVIDUALITY...YOU HAVE TO BE ABLE TO EXPRESS YOUR OPINIONS AND SHE NEEDS TO RESPECT THE WAY YOU FEEL.... SO IF YOU GIVE IN TO MARRIAGE JUST BECAUSE SHE IS GOING TO KILL HER SELF AND BY THE WAY I DONT THINK SHE WILL....THEN GET READY TO BE INSIDE THE TRUNK OF THE CAR MEANING SHE WILL RUN OVER YOU FOR EVER... AND FOR EVER IS SUCH A LONG TIME... I WOULD TELL YOU TO GET HER SOME HELP.. BUT IN THIS CASE IM GIVING YOU THE BEST ADVICE YOU ARE GOING TO EVER GET... GET RID OF THE FRUIT CAKE AND GET IN TO A RELATIONSHIP WITH A NORMAL PERSON... BEFORE SHE RUNS YOU CRAZY TOO...... IT SHOULD BE UP TO HER TO GET HER MANIPULATING MANIC DEPRESSIVE COO-COO FOR COCOA PUFF SELF SOME REAL HELP... SEND HER TO THE MENTAL HOSPITAL WHERE SHE BELONG.. IT LOOKS LIKE TO ME HER FAMILY MIGHT NEED SOME HELP TOO..... GOOD LUCK MAN!!! GET OUT OF THE RELATIONSHIP IS MY ADVICE.
2006-11-02 10:59:43 · answer #5 · answered by boricua_2290 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her go. She is emotionally abusive. Most women are physically abusive too. Didn't know that did you? We only hear about the men. Get rid of her. Do her some more before she offs herself.
2006-11-02 10:48:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't marry her if you don't want to. She should not manipulate you like this. If she is doing it now to get you to marry her, think of what she will be like after you are married to her. She will not change.
2006-11-02 10:49:34 · answer #7 · answered by angie a 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if she acts like that now wait till you get marired. She will get worse as time goes by. I would go my separate ways and find somebody better.
2006-11-02 10:50:02 · answer #8 · answered by vastud2479 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that you two should wait. talk to her about its better to wait for marriage. i mean if you two get married quick you will not have a good foundation. but i hope that you two work it out though.
2006-11-02 10:49:06 · answer #9 · answered by girlie 801 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're not ready to marry, then move on. How she chooses to handle the break-up is her choice.
2006-11-02 10:48:13 · answer #10 · answered by grandm 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋