2006-11-02 02:38:04 · 22 answers · asked by buzznboy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
As a woman, when you're pregnant hormones go crazy, you're sad, than happy, than sad again, angry, depressed all of them in just one day! And when it seems she's losing affection from you, that's not the case, all woman, or most go through it, they get upset at their husband/boyfriend, in a way they feel "it's you're fault"... but keep supporting and being there for her, she needs your support more than ever right now. And once she have the baby, things will be better than ever between you two.
2006-11-02 02:42:04 · answer #1 · answered by heaven_forsaken_dark_poet 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Pregnancy makes women quite sensitive. If the say that 'la donna é mobile' - women are always changing their minds, when one is pregnant, that is a lot worse. People around should be patient, although the difficult part is establishing a limit so that it does not turn out to become abusive.
There is a life inside her. It is scary, and wonderful when that is something you wanted. Try to talk to her, to sooth her. Things will never be the same again. It can get better, but it certainly will be different.
2006-11-02 10:45:09 · answer #2 · answered by eliana s 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Got hormones? She does! She is probably also feeling very insecure right now, both about your relationship and herself. Without you two getting married, there is no true security for the baby, and she also may feel like she is carrying a burden. She is! Be affectionate and supportive, but give her her space. It is a fine line to walk, but it will pay off if you manage it.
2006-11-02 10:48:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no i went through the same thing with mine it started around 4-5 months then after we had the baby she quit acting as if she hated me. I don't mean to sound like a jackass but i think this is the reason men leave during this time. I stuck it out and we are still together very much in love. Hang in there
2006-11-02 10:44:24 · answer #4 · answered by chad d 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
This is normal during pregnancy, all woman's hormones are different some want lots of affection and some do not want to be touched.
2006-11-02 10:45:16 · answer #5 · answered by L@M 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Probably because she is not feeling good about herself right now. She looks in the mirror and sees someone who is fatter then she is used to see. It affects a lot of women.>
2006-11-02 10:40:57 · answer #6 · answered by Captain Comment 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
lots of reasons:
- hormones
- insecure about her looks
- bad moods and morning sickness
- physical pain, cramps and discomfort
- friends and family poisoning her mind about you
- despondent about her future
- worried about her health and the baby's
- scared that you might leave her
- feeling regretful about her actions
- being frustrated about the bondage motherhood will have on her life
listen, pregnancy and motherhood is no easy task. you need to forget your need for affection. believe me, it doesnt mean she doesnt still love you, but right now your need for affection is being overshadowed by an avalanche of other things. for the next few weeks, continue to reassure her that her future will be bright, the baby will be healthy and beautiful, and everything will be alright. it might sound boring and redundant to you, but you will practically have to preach this to her. say it in a comforting way, and say it over and over. hold her when she cries, do your best to swallow her bitchiness and take it in stride. dont let her overdo it or become disrespectful, but for now you need to extend yourself to accomodate her over and beyond her expectations
youre going to be a dad, the leader and provider for your family. this is a good thing, and its beautiful that youre deciding to stick it through. for this early period, your gonna have to stick through a lot of frustration because of all those reasons i listed above, and maybe more, but in the end, its the most beautiful thing you can do as a human being. good luck and best wishes
2006-11-02 10:57:04 · answer #7 · answered by unkerpaulie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
9 times out of 10, it is her hormones, women have very weird hormones when they are pregnant! She may not be feeling well or may be having a bad day! Its not you..lol
2006-11-02 10:40:30 · answer #8 · answered by --Br0oklYn-- 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honey, her body is going through some radical changes now. She bound to get moody from time to time. She's probably uncomfortable, tired, nauseous?, and extremely emotional. I know I was. So just continue to support her and things will return to normal (well as normal as things can be with a new baby anyway!)
2006-11-02 10:41:30 · answer #9 · answered by Christabelle 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Hormones do crazy things. Before I got preggo I wanted sex more often than my husband did. As soon as I was expecting I had no interest at all. It had nothing to do with him....just one of those things
2006-11-02 10:42:49 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋