All the guys that are my friends ran away if they know I love another guy..and the others told me they couldn't just be friends with me because they wanted me..I feel embarrassed by this and I don't know what to say to them because i love another guy very much..why do they have to tell me that and make it more complicated? What should I do?
2006-11-02 01:32:24 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am not that way so i feel unconfortable now!
2006-11-02 01:32:54 · update #1
I AM NOT GAY OK
2006-11-02 01:40:16 · update #2
You're the girl that every guy wants. The girl from "There's Something About Mary". If they can't be your friend, they are not worthwhile. They should want you in their life no matter what. They sound so dramatic. Either that or you're are really, really hot and they just want to sleep with you. Either way, let them leave and whoever stays really cares about you. What are you going to do, not see the guy you love?
2006-11-02 01:45:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chances are your gay. And there's nothing wrong with it.
Google the word "homosexuality". Find support groups and helplines in your town.
Not to be a hypocrite....but i would suggest keeping these feelings to yourself...until your really comfortable with your sexuality and you are confident that you can handle it.
All the best! I am sure things will be okay and you'l find true love.
I think it doesnt matter if this guy you're in love with loves you back or not. I think the bigger and most important thing is discovering and understanding whether you're gay or not. An dhow to deal with it.
2006-11-02 09:39:15 · answer #2 · answered by wrinkled soul 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well all guys want you more than friendship...but they are not lucky enough coz you already fall inlove to other...so they feel better to run away before they get hurts or felt jealose when they see you with other guy. Just let them run away, if it makes them happy.
2006-11-02 09:37:00 · answer #3 · answered by jacky 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
weither you realize it or not you are doing something to make these guys think that they have a chance with you. STOP IT. it will kill your relationship with the guy you love. my girlfriend has the same prob and we have some major trust issues now.
2006-11-02 09:36:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are all expecting more than what you are willing to give them. You have to be honest with them and tell them you are "ONLY FRIENDS" nothing more and if they can't accept that then they are not people that you want as friends anyway!!
2006-11-02 09:35:30 · answer #5 · answered by HereweGO 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry about that, but it happens.
especially if youre wicked hot like me!! lol....(did i tell you i have a nice butt? lol)
they only told you cuz it hurts not to say it.....it hurts very much to keep those feelings inside.....dont blame them......but theyre probably not suitable for friendship.......
2006-11-02 09:35:59 · answer #6 · answered by SpinKick 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
All the other guys that were chasing you stopped chasing you when
you decided which one you were going to go with..
No surprise....
2006-11-02 09:37:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you sort have to move on bc they can t be made to think differnt and you are willing but they arr not
2006-11-02 09:37:46 · answer #8 · answered by Bud 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is weird.. tell them to bug off.. if they cant be friends with u jus bcoz u liked another guy.. then they really r no use.. even if they said they wanted to be more than jus friends with u.. wat a sore-loser.. they shud help u instead of making u feel more complicated abt things.. if u cant take bugging them off.. jus tell them nicely.. wat kind of guys u like and wat kind of a guy he is..
2006-11-02 09:38:25 · answer #9 · answered by WM 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cause they dont want to see you go but do what you feel is right
2006-11-02 09:35:42 · answer #10 · answered by green_tractor_man 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋