Would you remain loyal to your mother if you knew what she was doing is wrong?

Question

If your mother was having an affair with a married man, would you remain loyal to her?

Answer 1

The truth is love is unconditional.

Answer 2

There must be a reason, only to her, why she is having an affair. If she is doing it out in the open, not trying to keep it a secret, and has done it before, then I would say there is a problem. Other wise, if she has raised you well, trying to protect you from finding out, and you found out by accident, my advise would be to mind your own business. She is an adult, knows what she is doing, and perhaps she is miserable at home. A woman strays for a reason. She doesn't do it "just because".

Answer 3

Would your mom remain loyal to you if you were having an affair?

Answer 4

did ur mother brought u up till today or did she leave her job to other people?? if she didnt bring u up then go ahead.. dun be loyal.. but dun be too rude..
if she brought u up and suddenly had an affair with a married man.. u shud ask her why she did that... maybe she has her own problems not willing to tell..

Answer 5

Yes I would remain loyal but I would make sure she knows how much I dislike what she is doing!

Answer 6

no,,you have principals or you dont and if you think affairs are wrong,,they,re wrong,,it doesnt depend on who is having the affair,,someone is getting hurt and at the end of the day you are condoning her actions by keeping all normal,,thus enabling her to continue without problems,,she would have to confront her actions if those she cared about didnt agree with what she does and she always has the option to tell her husband she isnt happy anymore,,,,,no one has to have an affair,,it is just handy that's all,,,you get both,,and that's not fair.

Answer 7

Yeah definately but you need to let her know that she will just become one of the many women around the world who get their heart broken my married men.

Ask her if in her heart she knows he will leave his wife for her?? If the answer is yes, you need to let her get on with it, but I have a feeling she will already know deep down that its not for the future.

Let her deal with it herself, but be there to help pick up the pieces afterwards.

I was part of a broken family after my father fu*ked about on my mum and the women comes out worse, cause people see her as a heartless home wrecker

Answer 8

Yes I would remain loyal to her she is still your mother...I would tell her my feelings on the situation...but wouldn't love her any less because of it....unconditional love remember...

Answer 9

i don't know why she is doing this..don't judge anyone because our preceptions are not always the truth..and we do see things different from one another..but you can tell her how this makes you feel and have a heart to heart talke with her..you just don't know why she may be doing this..she is still your mother. she may be going threw something that you are not aware of, also this is her business even tho it may make you feel uncomfortable..i don't think this has anything to do with her loving you..blessings

Answer 10

You only have one mother and even though what she's doing is wrong that doesn't change the fact she's your mother.

Answer 11

Yeah even if you don't agree with what she is doing i wouldn't turn my back on her. Let her know how it makes you feel and if the other women finds out it could break her heart. If this man has children with his wife let your mom know what it's going to do to them as well.