My fiance's sister has this friend and when she is around my fiance and I, she only talks to him, not me. I fixed that though, she'd ask him a question and I'd answer it. Well, lastnight his sister, this friend, another friend and me went out to eat. This friend kept asking my fiance's sister questions about my fiance such as his birthday and other things. First, I thought she was just trying to have me in the conversation, but she kept asking his sister, not me. Is she going too far? Should I say something to her?
2006-11-02 01:21:02 · 24 answers · asked by sundragonjess 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you are a better woman than I am because I would have called her azz out about it right there at the dinner table
distance yourself (and your man!) from her
2006-11-02 01:26:19 · answer #1 · answered by kimandchris2 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Feeling a little threatened? The fact is that sometimes in this life we come up against situations which rub us the wrong way. Not to worry. Are you sure about your boyfriend? If you are, then you should dismiss these little things as passing. Sometimes we confront people we meet in our lives and things just seem to be so interesting. As time transpires, the wonderful feeling of having met such an interesting person subsides. If this woman receives no support in her endeavor to connect with your boyfriend, It will pass. Don't watch her. It's him you should be watching.
2006-11-02 09:33:04 · answer #2 · answered by Jayme C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should stop hanging around this friend. Women like that are always up to something and are usually only interested in a man because someone else has him. But at least your fiance loves you and is not at all intrigued by this woman. I would just start throwing her looks and keep it moving. What reason does she have to be around you two? She's not invited to the wedding, is she?
2006-11-02 09:24:07 · answer #3 · answered by wrtrchk 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its all about a mind game. if you wanna tell her you have to appear innocent and nice. you cannot let her win by being the bad guy. talk between the lines, make sure to keep being angelic. people hates people being jealous and things. make sure you dont talk to your fiance because that will just make him think that you have no tolerance and you are really small. everytime she does that, you can always change the subject, only talk to your fiance's sister. dont even acknowledge her with eye contact. let her know that you dont like what shes doing without other people knowing.
2006-11-02 09:27:21 · answer #4 · answered by Kyubi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would start by asking his sister not to bring her friend around your fiancee anymore that you are not comfortable with the questions she asks and how she leaves you out of the conversations.I would tell my fiancee that you are uncomfortable with his sisters friend being around that she is flirting and you don't like it.If that does not work then I would go to the girl and tell her how you feel and what you think of the way she acts around your fiancee.
2006-11-02 09:26:26 · answer #5 · answered by leoslady3900 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your fiance should let her & his sister know that this behavior will not be tolorated, and that he is dedicated to you. If he's not taking this seriosuly and standing up for you as his future wife, I'd take a good look at your relationship.
2006-11-02 09:40:43 · answer #6 · answered by ccraig1973a 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all sounds pretty confusing to me maybe they just don't know you very well and aren't comfortable talking to you they are friends not you this friends asking the birthday questions wasn't your friend but the sisters friend maybe that's why the asked the sister not you if you do believe something else like this woman wants your man put that hussy in her place. you know even if your man loves you a s#ut putting it all up in his face would be very hard to resist.
2006-11-02 09:26:02 · answer #7 · answered by jen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
brazen rudeness,,you are there for godsake,,she may just find it hard to talk to you but she should still make the effort to include you if she is talking about your fiance,,,dont go out with her again as drink and rudeness dont go together,,she isnt your friend so your not missing anything. treat her as you would a spoilt teenager,,ignore her,she is beneath you,,i mean,,you do have him and if she doesnt like that,,,,who the hell cares.
2006-11-02 09:24:58 · answer #8 · answered by lex 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know the answer to this one already. You should talk to your future sister-in-law too because its going to cause a strife between you if you go to her friend first. Be safe and smart about this you don't need the friction. Good luck! God Bless and congratulations on your engagement!!
2006-11-02 09:24:36 · answer #9 · answered by HereweGO 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think you had better put her in her place straight away and let your fiance back you up so she can see you're a team and she stands no chance
2006-11-02 09:23:24 · answer #10 · answered by Tabby T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she is interested in your fiance' and she isn't shy about it. She should be asking you the questions. I'd ask her how long she has been interested in him.
2006-11-02 09:28:05 · answer #11 · answered by angeleyes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋