I really love and care for this girl but recently she said that she's going to be in a relationship with a guy. I did expressed my feelings for her before, but i guess...i'm not the one for her. I've told myself to move..and i need some help at wishing her well... I really do care for her...thanks people for the answers :)
2006-11-02 01:16:54 · 6 answers · asked by Red Beret 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Take the high road. If you really love and care for her, you'll want what's best for her. Tell her that. I know it's hard when people w love don't love us back, but trust me, God has someone out there who will love you as much as you love them. And who knows, when you exhibit such great character, at some point she may decide that's you after all. Good luck!
2006-11-02 01:21:16 · answer #1 · answered by mabi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think the best thing to do is not say nothing more. it will probably hurt you more than help. they say you can't really convince a girl to like you. she's moving on for some reason. maybe because you were just too slow on reciprocating love or just acting too clingy. but if you have to say something, say something like, "I want to remain friends with and you wish you the best even if it's not with me". let her take it however she wants and go after some other chick who'll most likely be way more hotter and compatible than she is, and before you know it you won't even remember her name again! the plus in this is at least now you know what not to do to make a girl leave and you'll find out true compatibility happens when you are allowed to be yourself in a relationship. get going dawg!
2006-11-02 09:34:39 · answer #2 · answered by ShaneA 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing to do is to move on and find someone else to care about and just keep her as a friend.
2006-11-02 09:20:21 · answer #3 · answered by Riyonna D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your most noble gift would be to say nothing and just be yourself when you do get to spend time with her. Often times, the best thing to do is also the hardest and seemingly least rewarding, but it is a mark of character.
2006-11-02 09:19:42 · answer #4 · answered by randyken 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are noble in what you seek, I commend you, the best thing I can tell you is to be yourself when you are with her. Sometimes, the only way we can show our love to someone is by letting them go.
2006-11-02 09:22:22 · answer #5 · answered by supernerd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simply tell her that you wish he happiness and love, smile and move on. If its not right for her then it won't be right for you, so happily cut the ties and find what is good for you!
2006-11-02 09:20:42 · answer #6 · answered by yeller 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋