treat me like a prize and not just another sex object...?
2006-11-02 00:43:43 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Find a guy who treats you the way you like. Women never seem to understand that men aren't starter kits. You don't teach us proper behavior and weed out our bad habits. By the time you waltz into our lives we're pretty much set in our ways. Any changes that occur will have less to do with what you want and more to do with our natural maturity curve. Find a fellow who behaves like your ideal and you will be happy. Try changing a guy and you will just end up frustrated and alone because he will resent it. Any changes he makes for you will be temporary in nature and begrudged.
2006-11-02 01:45:16 · answer #1 · answered by Cain 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you cannot teach him that im afraid, you need to find someone that will look at you as a person with a brain and feelings, not just a piece of meat there for his pleasure. I hope you also don't want to be treated like a prize, simply because all prizes loose there appeal after a week or two, think as your self as more of a princess, who needs a true gentleman to love you and respect you.
2006-11-02 08:59:28 · answer #2 · answered by andi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Treat him like a prize. It works both ways.
2006-11-02 08:49:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not sure you should try to teach him to treat you like a prize. Rather, he should treat you like an equal and learn to give you the love and attention you deserve. Let him know that you are not merely in the relationship for sex, and if he feels you are only there for sex, that you cannot stay in the relationship.
Express to him your concerns that although you like his favorable sexual attentions toward you, that you need him to see you as a special person and equal as well.
Good luck.
2006-11-02 08:48:24 · answer #4 · answered by Raistliin 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Treat HIM like a prize and see what happens.
2006-11-02 08:46:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Any respectful man will treat you like a prize to begin with. If you're being treated otherwise (and don't like it) then you're with the wrong guy. Ditch the loser and find someone that you deserve.
2006-11-02 08:49:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he's using you as a sex object, then cut out the sex.
I'm not meaning to offend by saying this, butI am a firm believer in chivalry not being dead. It should be taught as kids these days grow up.
I feel old now.
2006-11-02 09:50:09 · answer #7 · answered by guhralfromhell 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The prize is the sex. Do what he wants when he wants where he wants for as long as he wants or find yourself lonely fat dperessed and watching the 1000's of girls who do....fill your boots
2006-11-02 08:50:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
By being a prize...
2006-11-02 08:48:14 · answer #9 · answered by girlfunny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make sure he sees you as someone he has to work hard for. Act classy at all times. Don't grovel to him or capitulate when he starts toying with you. Don't return his calls right away. Good luck.
2006-11-02 08:46:19 · answer #10 · answered by DMBthatsme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋