whe i feel hot for seeing a beautiful girl that even i want to touch her sensually does this mean i tend to be an elisbian?
2006-11-02 00:08:28 · 22 answers · asked by msr 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
perhaps, perhaps, perhaps.
but then again, it doesnt mean having thoughts about other women implicate you as being lesbian.
it is normal. unless you make these thoughts happen- then THAT would set off ringing alarms.
2006-11-02 00:10:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anna D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No that doe's not mean you are one. You are going to be better off staying strait. How old are you? a lot of times when you are young you will have some feelings like that it is just a phase though. Here is a copy of an email that i sent ot somone else (keep in mind that i am a male not a female)
>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>RE: I am not trying to be judgmental of you i am just letting you know that someone cares. I think that possibly you need salvation through Jesus Christ. I can probably understand you more then anyone else right now because i went through a lot of the same thang that you are talking about and what very intense pain to feel this way, i am over her now but my heart still lingers every once in a while and i cry out with passion for love and fulfillment and if it was not for certain spiritual truisms that i came to realize then i would be very lost.Here is some of what has healped me,
have been using some deep meditation Cd's that have helped me a lot thy cause a bunch of issues to surface though, i think it is so that you are faced with it and you can overcome the issue, the instructions for the program say to use the Cd's every day but i think that it is only a good idea to do this for the first six weeks of the program and then to use them at your own pace of maybe two or three times a week at least for me anyway, ALSO DON'T TURN THE VOLUME UP VERY LOUD AT ALL WHEN LISTENING TO THE CD'S (when listening to these Cd's you have to use a portable CD player with headphones) the company is called center-point (click on link)http://www.centerpointe.com
I now that it my be difficult for you to do but you need to let go of this person and the lesbian lifestyle that you live, think about how lost you feel and how much that it has hurt you already. here are some bible verses for you to read if you want (Romans 3:23) (Titus 3:5) (Ephesians 2 :8-9) (Romans 5:8) (1 John 1:7) (Acts16:31) (John 14:6)
the bible says god has loved you with an everlasting love (Jeremiah 5:8) find church read bible, go to http://www.bellevue.org and you can watch live sermons HOPE I HELPED
2006-11-02 00:18:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
No i wouldnt say u r a lesbian....I would say u r curious until u take the next step to find out 4 yourself! even then u may not b a lesbian...u may enjoy both sides...all or none is fine....u have to decide this 1 4 yourself...sorry :)
2006-11-02 00:13:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i not sure if you are very young and just feeling like exploring or what. but question is how do you feel about men. do you have the same reaction, or do they do nothing for you? the only way i see it is to try to be with a women and see if it is what you want.
2006-11-02 00:12:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go explore, its very possible, then again, maybe bi? just explore with both, guys, and girls. Its normal to think a girl is beautiful, that kinda thing. Guys a great, so are girls. Im bi, but i rather date guys, just kiss/fool around with girls. Idk, its kinda hard to explain, but the only way your going to find out if your straight/b/lesbian, is exploring, and trying ne things. Dont be afraid.
2006-11-02 00:21:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you are. if u try and kiss a girl and u feel something ..u could be a lesbian. or just bi..but are u lonely? thats another reason 2 !
2006-11-02 00:11:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you still get turned on by dudes then youre not
but if you feel you wanna give a cannilingas to girls then your pretty much a lesbian. i can still make you a real woman though
2006-11-02 00:14:55 · answer #7 · answered by dudatswit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you are not, please do not ack up on these feelings or temptation. If you really do not want that type of lifestlye I have a suggestion. Jesus Christ, the son of GOD can help you. In the Bible GOD say "Call on me in times of trouble, I will help you and you will Honor me".
2006-11-02 00:20:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Good question...do you feel the same way when you see a handsome man?
2006-11-02 00:14:40 · answer #9 · answered by Hootcoot 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you want a girls body like that yeah, you might be a little gay. or you are just really curious. or you havent had the right kinda dick in yur life
2006-11-02 00:12:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋