How can I tell a girl who is in a relationship that I like her?????
Or is it best that I wait untill she breaks up with him? She is 15 and hes a bit older they litterally just got together (a coulpe of days). I like her and I think I should tell her, but I have known her 2 years and we are best friends. Should I tell her? When and how? Specifically, how, becuase I need a way that wont make things weird between us.
2006-11-01 23:55:43 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
give her some time to get to know this new guy and dont wait till she is with someone next time before you want to make a move just get in there
2006-11-01 23:57:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are best friends then you should not tell her.
You must sit back now and wait until the time is right, That means she is not seeing or interested in anyone. She loves you as a friend right now because she doesn't know you have feelings for her do not confuse her at this time. It is not fair.
It is too bad you have just realized this, but if she is worth it, you will have to wait.
Once you both are ready you will find a way to tell her, do not blurt it out, be subtle and do little things to let her know you care. Hugs,embraces, holding her hand, kissing her cheek.. be careful, and if she is not responsive then back off, it is not meant to be.
2006-11-02 00:02:12 · answer #2 · answered by doclakewrite 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a tough one. Why have you never told her before now? It isn't just jealousy because she is seeing someone else is it?
I say you should wait and see what happens - keep being a friend to her. You've waited two years you can wait a bit longer.
Have there been sparks in this relationship you have with her? Or is it just a comfortable casual friendship?
If you say something now it could be awkward. Or she could fall into your arms...
Sorry but I think it depends wholly on the dynamics between you both.
2006-11-02 00:06:06 · answer #3 · answered by ShoCh 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you both been having such fun together as friends that you did not even think of her that way, but now that she has a boyfriend do you feel excluded and a bit jealous.?
Don't confuse her right now. Be there for her and if things do not work out who better to go out with. Get the point!! Patience.
2006-11-02 00:02:31 · answer #4 · answered by enigma 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-03 05:03:00 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU KNOW, SINCE YALL ARE SUCH GOOD FRIENDS, MAYBE YOU SHOULD KEEP IT THAT WAY. IF SHE IS ONLY 15, THERE WILL BE MANY FISH IN THE SEA. BE HER FRIEND, HELP HER WHEN SHE NEEDS IT, HELP DRY HER TEARS WHEN THEY COME. IN THE END, WHEN SHE IS OLDER, MAYBE THINGS WILL CHANGE BETWEEN YALL. 15 IS WAY TOO YOUNG TO BE WITH THE ONLY ONE! TAKE MY ADVICE, I DID IT MYSELF AND I AM REGRETTING IT. 15 YOU KNOW WHAT LOVE IS, HOWEVER WHAT YOU DONT KNOW IS YOU WILL CHANGE. YOU WILL BE DIFFERENT AT 25 THAN 15.
2006-11-02 00:23:06 · answer #6 · answered by Keepin it real 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you didn't like the other answers? if you tell her it will change your relationship and not necessarily for the best. Wait until this ends. if your meant to be it will end.
2006-11-01 23:58:54 · answer #7 · answered by uknowme 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her, and about the feeling weird thing. If you dont show that it feels weird, then she wont act like it.
2006-11-01 23:58:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you all live once, there is no thrill in the life of a coward. act, actions speak ouder than words seduce her
2006-11-02 00:15:21 · answer #9 · answered by gerry zim 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think you should tell her if she is in a relationship
2006-11-01 23:58:41 · answer #10 · answered by ntu 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋