I've been with my boyfriend a year now & I met someone recently I'm very attracted to. Recently the idea of an affair came up & I know it's a bad idea, but it's something I just can't seem to shug off. I know I can't have my cake & eat it too. I know I have no business trying to get away with that at all. This attraction to this other person though isn't something that's going away. Advice?
Jenny
2006-11-01 23:52:46 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Simple solution: do your thing with the guy you're attracted to, and make your current bf your "comfort *****". Whoever puts up with it the longest is your man.
2006-11-01 23:57:49 · answer #1 · answered by Mr. Main Event 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok this is one i know all to well i have cheated on my man a couple of times and he never found out till it eat at me so much i told him and when i told him i saw the hurt in his eyes for the first time i saw him cry and i dont mean a few tears here and there i mean a full on cry and that was to much for me and ever since then i have been trying to get his trust back and i have not cheated since cause i dont want to put him through that if u dont love the man ur with dont hurt just leave him and go to someone else
2006-11-02 07:58:52 · answer #2 · answered by kat 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be so greedy, either forget about this attractive guy and get back to your boyfriend who has kept you interested for a year. or ditch your boyfriend for this new guy, but is it worth the risk that this new guy wont make you as happy as your boyfriend has over the past year?
2006-11-02 07:58:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell urself the truth.u feel more confortable with this new guy.but do you know that every relationship has a sweet begining? u should tell the other guy the good things u adore in this new guy,may be thing could work out better.u er yet to fully know the new "angel".
2006-11-02 08:20:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cheat or be true. This is your decision. You know what you SHOULD do and you know what you WANT to do. The question is WHAT ARE YOU GOING TO DO? also...what would you hope your boyfriend of a year would do if in the same boat?
2006-11-02 07:55:31 · answer #5 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing wrong with being attracted to someone......if you like the guy your with stick with him......be faithful huh? i mean, cmon, its not that hard. im a guy and i do it........
but if you must have this new guy, tell your bf about it.....let him know you want someone else and didnt want to hurt him....
never cheat!!! its better to just break it off with your bf....
if you are seriously considering cheating, then the one your with isnt that special to you anyways and you would break up eventually.
2006-11-02 09:33:58 · answer #6 · answered by SpinKick 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't cheat,if for no other reason than that it'll bring you bad karma.It's wrong and just a cruel thing to do to someone who loves you.
2006-11-02 09:19:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I THINK FIRST U MUST FIND OUT IF THE OTHER BOY HAS A GF OR A CRUSH OR NOT.IF HE DOES THEN FORGET HIM!
IF HE DOESN'T THEN LEAVE THE EARLIER ONE TAKIN IN MIND HOW HE WOULD FEEL THEN USING TACTICS (WHICH I KNOW WELL) MAKE HIM CRUSH ON U THEN U HAVE ANOTHER BF!
SIMPLE! ISN'T IT?
2006-11-02 08:00:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
when your attracted to someone else theres something wrong in your relationship.fix it or say goodbye before you both get hurt.
2006-11-02 07:56:52 · answer #9 · answered by pookie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
brake up with him
2006-11-02 07:56:03 · answer #10 · answered by annamariecreed 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋