What are some good ways to talk to her? Where? and what do I talk about?
THANKS!!!
2006-11-01 23:33:31 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I once had a friend who would joke and talk to every girl he ever met. This went on when he was in jr. high. It used to be annoying to me when I was with him becaus I was more shy and afraid to talk to girls because I didn't know what to say or how to say it. However, my friend kept right up with his banter with every girl in sight. After awhile it dawned on me that what he was doing was practising on every girl he met. When some girls would brush him off he would just humor them and tell what they would be missing in a kind of laughing manner. As my friend grew in confidence he sort of polished his approach to women. As he grew in confidence so did I. I could finally see that communication is really not something that comes easy but must be learned and practiced. Don't basketball teams practice and scrimmage before the season starts so that when the big games come they will be prepared. Well, every little bit of talk with girls does that for you. As you grow in confidence and technique Guess what you'll learn to communicate with not only women of any age, or status but also with men as well. In high school my friend taught this. He would ask out about six girls to an event and he would tell them "let me know if you want to go out etc" Three of the girls would flat out say no while one would say maybe and one would say yes. He was what you would call playing the LAWS OF AVERAGE. Imagine if he would have asked out one girl and she would have said no. He'd have been sitting at home depressed etc. I started off saying hi. to the best looking girl in class and hi. to the least. After awhile I found out " hey, this isn't so hard. Get out of your shell and go for it-----what in the world do you have to lose.
2006-11-02 01:46:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well, what is this girl into? You could always talk about something she's interested in.
Where do you see this girl? If you see her at school/work, talk on the way to a water fountain, snack machine, payphone, some public place like that. But avoid talking to her while you're on the way to the bathroom! It may seem a little...uncomfortable for her mostly.
To make an approach to talk to her, make sure you make eye contact, and once you do, smile or wave or something. Then, calmly, walk up to her, and make sure you don't trip or anything! If she looked away to a friend or anything, today's not the day. If she looks away, she may not be interested, or has something better to do.
Hope my advice helped!
2006-11-01 23:41:32 · answer #2 · answered by M&M 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Jokes are a great tool for flirting. Make her laugh. She'll put down her guard.
2006-11-01 23:37:18 · answer #3 · answered by Mr. Main Event 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
have some confidence and be yourself....thats a start..
then just emphasize your qualities....if youre funny be funny....if youre nice be nice......if youre a good lookin dude well then just look pretty........
sweet talkin has done wonders for me.....just be really sweet.....words like "sweetheart" go a long way.....honey, baby, whatever you like......
say what you feel....if you think shes beautiful....then say "i think youre beautiful"........
sweet talking always gets it done....the word "sweetie" has gotten me more kisses than i could hope for!!!!! lol
2006-11-02 01:44:24 · answer #4 · answered by SpinKick 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself, and the rest will come naturally.
2006-11-01 23:36:23 · answer #5 · answered by ravishingly_low 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋