I used to work at a High School as a part time cleaner at night while i worked there> one of the teachers there was always going out of his way to smile and chat to me anyway one night we maded eye to eye contract with out speaking a word I now dont work at the school and i cant stop thinking of him.I want to contract him I know were he lives and his phone number too.My questions is should i contract him or not any ideals pls?
2006-11-01 22:56:51 · 13 answers · asked by robbie3839 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you were still working in the school, it might be best to approach him slowly, as a rapid approach does carry some added risk of rejection. However, under the circumstances, a subtle approach simply isn't an option. Do it or don't do it.
Does he know you by name? If you were to call him, how difficult would it be for him to know who you are?
Here's an idea, if you want to be just a little on the sneaky side. Call him up on the weekend, and ask if he has a few minutes to meet with you. A coffee shop or pancake house might be a good place to arrange a meeting.
If he asks for a reason, tell him you may have lost something in his classroom, perhaps a piece of jewelry, and you're wondering if he may have found it.
At this point, he has two choices. He can assure you that he hasn't seen it, or he can agree that it would be a good idea for the two of you to get together to discuss the matter.
2006-11-02 00:23:59 · answer #1 · answered by Allen Montgomery 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not right? It can't hurt. If he is not interested in you that way you can always say that the reason why you called was to get to know eachother better first. You will never know unless you do something. You don't want to be wondering what if for the rest of your life. Do It! And Good Luck
2006-11-01 23:00:55 · answer #2 · answered by rach 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's a single and available, try it. If you felt some sparks, chances are he did too. But since you no longer work there, things can develop now. So try it. If it doesn't work, then at least you'll know and will be able to move on.
2006-11-01 23:01:51 · answer #3 · answered by T.G. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trouble hon! and it's looking you right in the face but you don't want to admit it! Right? i.e. His wife! his kids! his marriage! Turn around hon, and look for someone with no baggage!!! Have a good day!
2006-11-01 23:06:58 · answer #4 · answered by wheeliebin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you like him and it is what your heart is telling you then just ring him up and ask him if he would like 2 meet up for a drink or somthing 2 eat. if u dont then he might ask some one else out instead just do what ur heart is telling u k
2006-11-01 23:01:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not so sure...
I think you better get to know him more first...
If you are already sure than go for it...
never hurts to give it a try...
2006-11-01 23:05:09 · answer #6 · answered by Hahaha... 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he has your number and he knows where you live let him do the calling thing, if not then yeah ok go for it better than wondering what if....
2006-11-01 23:02:43 · answer #7 · answered by unis_1990 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would contact him. What do you have to lose? what is the worst he can say, no. Go for it, give it a spin, push his digits.>
2006-11-01 23:00:18 · answer #8 · answered by Captain Comment 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try it out. Nothing wrong about it. Good luck
2006-11-01 22:59:16 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really like the guy, go ahead.
I hope you don't work there anymore.
2006-11-01 23:01:45 · answer #10 · answered by Yvonne Mystic 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋