I am in love with a girl, so is she.I want to propose her for marriage? Any innovative romantic ideas?

Question

I am 28 and she is 24.She is a bit commitment and marriage phobic.We both have had relationships in the past and they did not turn out to be good.

Answer 1

congrats!!...

there has to be a limo.. heheh (not really!!)
then you should pop the question in an island with no one there but you 2
and make the meal by yourself girls really appreciates it when men do stuffs for them..
another:you could ask the question on a rainy day when youre both wet atleast she doesnt expect it..
i think thats great..i prefer it when i dont expect it at all...

Answer 2

You can take her on a hot balloon trip and ask her when you are high above ground. Or you can make a giant kite with a banner saying in big letters: KATIE WILL YOU MARRY ME?, and set it off on a windy day one weekend when and where you'll be sure she'll see it. You can ask a pal to help you pull it off. You can even put the banner on top of her of your house's roof so that she would see it from the street. Another idea is a big sticker on the back of a friend's car. Then ask the friend to drive in front of you while your girlfriend is with you. Another idea is to ask her by sending a message to a radiostation, accompanied by her favorite song. If she loves animals you can buy her a puppy with the big question on his collar. Something like: I'd love to live with a happily married couple. Hope it helped a bit.

Answer 3

well u can either take her on a little winter romantice picinc or take her to dinner or the best of all stay at home make a romantic meal from scratch with all the trimming s with a glass of wine and dont forget candles maybe you can have pudding with the meal something like a cake or something and put the ring inside it she would like that but if she doesnt notice it u will have to tell there is a suprise in the cake for her just incase she chokes on it or do the bend down on one knee thing after she has eating and a glass of wine or two just to relax her and hope for the best GOODLUCK.

Answer 4

(Disclaimer: All that I am about to say is my personal opinion and I really don't want to be held responsible for messing things up with you and your girl so you should only do what you think is best since you know her and I do not)

First off...how long have you've been dating? Because if you have been dating for a good while(a year maybe) and you both are still together then that might increase your chances of her saying yes because she might start seeing that you plan on sticking around. If it were me, I would talk to her about her thoughts on marriage, maybe hint at it subtly that you are thinking of getting married and see how she reacts. If she starts to freak out, then no matter how you propose it will probably end in her saying no and then it might be awkard between you two.

However, if you are going to propose it really depends on her idea of romance. Does she like walks on the beach?(proposing under the stars) Does she like slow dancing? (rent out a private place and fancy it up) Maybe she likes the simpler things, such as going out for dinner or staying home and watching movies with you. (maybe stay away from the ring-in-food idea, you don't want her to choke, right?) Maybe she likes going out to sporting events. take her outside for an outdoor event and have it written out in the sky. Or another idea, leave her notes around your place leading to another room(have the petals of her favorite flower leading to the room along with the notes) When she comes into the room you are in, be bent down on one knee, have candles all over. The room is dark. Yada-yada-yada *insert soft corny music and pretty, little, tear jerking, pre-prepared speech about why you want to marry her, here* im sure you can take it from there. Make sure you know when she will be coming over. Anyway you do it, in my opinion, it doesn't matter how fancy everything is, it's the thought that counts.
Though a girl has to have some standards, so Im thinking you shouldn't be like "hey foxy lady, i've been thinking 'bout marriage lately. How 'bout it?" while you have food coming out of your mouth or while your scratching places better left unsaid. You want to be focused on her. She probably will want to feel special, like you put all this effort into it just for her. You don't want to humiliate her(or yourself if that matters to you) If your going to propose and your not sure she is going to say yes then maybe you should do it in a more private place. talk to her about it if she does say no but if you love her then i wouldn't give her an ultimatum (e.g. marriage or breakup) after all if you love her then you will be understanding on her thoughts but you will obviously want her to take how you feel into account. So though most guys dont like communication, most woman do. (note i did not say 'all' so it really depends on her) Talk with her.

Best wishes and hope it works out for you!

Answer 5

in a very expensive resturant that u kno she'll like