I am 21, I don't find guys my age attractive, I can't talk to then and don't understand them. My boyfriend is 32. I have never dated someone under 27 - why is this? Is it normal??
2006-11-01 22:21:42 · 22 answers · asked by Tiaan 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
its normal,i would think its best to date some one who is at least 7years older than you if your thinking about a serious relationship,you wouldn't expect the sort of control and authority from some one your age which you would find from some one older.therefore your its absolutely normal and your on the right track
2006-11-01 22:30:57 · answer #1 · answered by trisa 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you're 21 and your boyfriend is 32, there's nothing wrong with that, but if you have never dated anyone within 5 years of you, there might be something there.
As long as your relationships are healthy and the guy is not old enough to be your father, then I'd say you have nothing to worry aobut.
2006-11-02 06:26:00 · answer #2 · answered by Jake S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Normal? What is normal ? You obviously find you have more in common with older men perhaps of your maturity level. I only have one word of caution, beware because of your age (21) these men are wiser .... Have a good time ,but always be careful of people trying to take advantage.
2006-11-02 06:28:19 · answer #3 · answered by Pat S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course this is normal men and women have always matured at a different rate so therefore you can be on a level with older guys and have more in common because they are of the same level of maturity, more in common then. Dont worry about it just be happy
2006-11-02 06:24:33 · answer #4 · answered by shells 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sure, you're normal.
It's not "maturity" you are seeking, though. It is that other "ity" ... security.
Guys who are 21 are insecure in themselves, for the most part, and probably not secure in their role in life, being mere "tweenagers." By the time they get to their 30s, they are truly adult.
So enjoy the comfort and security afforded you by dating old goats. Just don't mistake it for a fondness for "maturity."
2006-11-02 06:25:26 · answer #5 · answered by Grendle 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just prefer a "man" instead of a "boy". Perfectly normal. I'm 32 and my boyfriend is 51
2006-11-02 06:24:07 · answer #6 · answered by WonderTwit 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I see nothing wrong with that.
since
my divorce i have dated only women younger than me
10-20+ years
that is who my personality matches...
I pretty easy going
and
women my age (that are attracted to me) would rather
manipulate, control, force(if they can) their influence upon others.
I avoid them, and leave them to themselves...
they'll handle each other... ...I want no part of that.
.
maybe I was born 10-30 years too soon...
I get lots of criticism from, particularly, women near my age, and after they discover that I'm NOT intrested in or NOT listen to them
well,
they search somewhere else for someone that will......
my friends, which are mostly women, see nothing wrong with whom I'm attracted to either...
I like my friends....
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.
hm....
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2006-11-02 06:39:14 · answer #7 · answered by DM 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my guess is you are like me i was 20 when i met my partner he was 34 been together for 3years i was never able to find anyone my own age either people used to say to me your too mature for your age i think thats why i attracted older men anyway i think men my age are immature anyway so take it from me its normal.
2006-11-02 06:30:23 · answer #8 · answered by baby dust for me 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
that is perfectly normal, woman mature at A FASTER RATE than men so you are thinking and acting older and mature because u are. Embrace that and enjoy that.
2006-11-02 06:26:41 · answer #9 · answered by vyshonc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure it is normal. Your just to mature for guys your own age.>
2006-11-02 06:25:58 · answer #10 · answered by Captain Comment 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋