i'm looking for the little things, the details. what really attracts or attracted you (on a heart to soul level) to that guy or that girl.
Romantics welcome!
2006-11-01 22:17:46 · 16 answers · asked by barbarita 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
When I first saw my husband, I had to drop my son-in-law off something where he worked. He worked in a spa place. As I looked around at all the men, this one guy caught my eye. There was just something about him, he was quiet and shy, I could tell, he didn't dress like everyone else in there. I could see by observing him as my son-in-law and I talked that he was a great worker. I thought, "Gee, if I hooked up with him, he wouldn't be a lazy slob like my exhusband." So my son-in-law set us up on a blind date and we've been married for 10 wonderful years.
2006-11-01 22:24:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first time that I saw my fiance I just knew that I could love him and possibly spend the rest of my life with him. It wasn't really his looks that attracted me to him, but you know when you meet someone for the first time do you ever get that feeling that you already know them? Thats what it was like for me. I love that he understands me and loves me on the same level as I do with him. We are not only lovers, friends but we are truely soul mates as well. I don't think that I was ever meant to love anyone else in my lifetime. I think that we are among the lucky ones who found eachother so early on in our lives. I just hope that there are other people out there that can experience the same feelings as I do.
2006-11-01 22:22:56 · answer #2 · answered by rach 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was in a chat room in September of 2005... I was lonely and looking for a nice girl to talk to. I'm not the kind of guy to try to do all that cyber sex stuff or stalk a girl, but I was always seen that way. But one night, in the yahoo teen chat room, i was reading the chat and saw a girl asking people to rate her picture on myspace. i looked and she was drop dead gorgeous. but that didnt do it for me. yes, she was absolutely beautiful, prettier than any other girl I have seen. but what did it for me is the way she was playing hard to get when i was talking to her. she was all shy and even signed off the internet for a day. I caught her again and we started talking and I knew the girl was the one for me. we knew each other for less than 24 hours and she let me come to her house. damn... she's one hell of a bombshell both personality and looks. i would never give her up for anything. I'd die for this little lady. she is the greatest thing that ever happened to me in my life. she stole my heart when she said hello. i never knew a girl could e that captivating, even still after 13 months, almost 14 months now. we live together and were moving into our own apartment on the 11th... i've spent thousands on her already... thousands of sexy moments, thousands of sweet silences, thousands of minutes with her every week on the phone when we first met... i love her. and i have o doubt in my mind that she is the one for me because i know she'll never be untrue to me. I'm 20 she's 17... young girls have a tendency to not know what they want until its too late. thank god i caught the right one early on... friends of mine would tell me i would never get a girl with the high standards i had... hahaha if i could i'd laugh in their faces... gotta love life!!!
2006-11-01 22:33:08 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I 1st saw her, there was a deep sense of ancient recognition... an overwhelming sense of joy at having found her again, if you can dig it. It was definitely heart & soul that defied me to look away. How do you walk away from your breath of life?
She seemed regal, royal... perhaps someone whom I served under in a previous life. Never had that experience before, so I married her!
2006-11-01 22:28:49 · answer #4 · answered by Xceed One 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sense of humor. Maybe I should say his laugh. I heard him laugh as he was coming through the door, it was contagious. When I finally saw him, he was also handsome. He lit up the room, everyone seemed to be drawn to him, so I walked over to see who this guy was. He was funny and had a warm personality. I was in love.
2006-11-01 22:28:42 · answer #5 · answered by juicie813 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what attracted me to my guy was his smile the way he looked after me when we went on our dates he wouldn't let me go home in the taxi on my own he would insist on going in the taxi with me and when he preferred to pay for everything from the meals to the cinema we ve been together for 3years ever since and believe it or not he is still like that now keeps the relationship burning and alive all the time.
2006-11-01 22:24:32 · answer #6 · answered by baby dust for me 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm attracted by the personality
2006-11-01 22:35:02 · answer #7 · answered by dina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the first time i REALLY fell in love... was with someone online. this was years ago back when i was in college. i never even knew how she looked, but the way we related to one another was so uncanny. plus, the mystique of the whole cyber-friendship thingie really added more spice to it. when we finally met, i was totally speechless, she was even more beautiful than i've ever imagined.
and that's how it ended... me being speechless. i'm such a loser. :(
2006-11-01 22:22:10 · answer #8 · answered by Ricky the Kid 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
His MALEness is what attracted me to him. He's just such a guy -- likes to hunt and fish and play cards. After being around a lot of metrosexuals in college, he was a welcome change. :)
2006-11-01 22:20:27 · answer #9 · answered by bibliophile31 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I will have to say the way he looked into my eyes. It was as if he had been searching for something, and when he looked at me, he was pleased, he had found it!!
2006-11-01 22:21:20 · answer #10 · answered by janet r 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋