there is a man of 23 yrs who was left by a girl, who was assumingly with 5 men at the time. thet were together for 3 years. its been a year since they split but he's still heart broken and still cries at the thought of it. wat advice can u give this person?
2006-11-01 21:38:15 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i met this person over the internet, and i chat to him alot. he comes from pakistan. he is always so depressed and forbade me from asking this question. but he needs to know other peoples opinions. even his psychologist say he is difficult. he gets very emotional. i've started feeling attached to him and he also said that he had feelings for me. i want to do my best to help him, that's all.
2006-11-01 23:19:57 · update #1
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2006-11-02 00:49:41 · update #2
if one loves sincerely it is very difficult to come out of it. But the medicine for a broken heart is start love some nice girl and u will forget the past one.
2006-11-01 21:43:35 · answer #1 · answered by Bharathi 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If she walked off from him that should be enough to turn him against her. Not to mention the possible 5 other guys. Tell the dude to wake up. She is a skank. He should be glad she is gone. I understand the hurt. The fact is he could have wound up marrying her' having 2 or 3 kids and then find out that 1 or all is not his then his heart would be broken. Let her go. Go find the 1 that deserves you.
2006-11-01 21:52:00 · answer #2 · answered by Sarcastic Sid 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like a real sensitive soul bless him, personally I think he had a lucky escape as much as he probably wouldn't want to hear that off anyone even now a year later, he obviously really loved this girl who hurt him so deeply, was she his first love, its always harder to get over your first real love, but I do think its time for him to move on from it now and to realise she isn't coming back and if she ever does its only to hurt him all over again, while hes sat fretting and crying she is out enjoying herself and not giving him a second thought, hes wasting his time on lost love and needs to get back out there and make a new life for himself, maybe you could just give him the advice and straight to the point, sometimes you have to be cruel to be kind.
2006-11-01 22:32:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know exactly how he feels cos im going through the same situation but all i can say is give it time and time will heal him try and keep away anything that reminds him of her it doesnt seem like shes goin to come back after a year. So encourage him to move on he shdnt need to miss out on may be better things that could happen in his life....
2006-11-01 21:57:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
This guy has obviously been very deeply hurt by the girl, and probably thinks that all girls are the same. The fact of the matter is there are plenty of women out there who will love and respect him. Its just a case of going out there and finding one. I understand the concept of once bitten twice shy but the only way to find love is to look for it. Tell him Good Luck from me.
2006-11-01 21:44:30 · answer #5 · answered by tiz 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
tough situation
he should bring up all the bad memories he had about her what she really did to him , he should open his eyes and forget about the good times, he will feeling better just imagine all the betray , all the lies, all the bad stuff she did to him and dont stop doing so imagine how he was sitting at home and she fooled with the other ones when they touched her and all that he has a chance to overcome that by bringing up what he did and how he was treated
all the best to him
2006-11-01 21:47:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he knew if that this girl enjoys threesomes and trains, he should had left her. Unless they were about to get married,you need to help him that is if you care. There are groups about emotional damaged people.
Read about one that is in the same boat at
2006-11-01 21:46:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him to move on, tell him to see things in a detached way. That way, he may be able to see the proper balance between his emotions and his logics.
Good luck, hope things get better for him.
2006-11-01 21:39:46 · answer #8 · answered by Eternity 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well sometimes if you give him a present like a puppy that may help what do you think...So that he can turn and take care of something and get his mind off the other..
2006-11-02 00:59:38 · answer #9 · answered by ck1_content 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
to go to see her, talk to her and realise that last year was just a waste of time - because when he was crying after her - he missed his opportunity to meet thousands of nicer girls...
maybe meeting her would wake him up and finally he will be ready to find the love of him life
2006-11-01 21:49:01 · answer #10 · answered by Joanna L 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋