My ex-girlfriend and I are friends, at least we were.
I understand the whole dating thing was going to occur, but this is unacceptable to me. My ex is Mormon; She is dating a guy who is trying to be Mormon, but yet when he talks to me, he threatens me because I was innocently talking to her. He threatened me by saying he'll kick my *** if I contact her again, and thinks this is okay because he's not Mormon yet. I don't tolerate or listen to bullies. He told me that he beat people up for a living!
Should I let this go?
By the way, my ex thinks he has turned his life around and regrets what he did. I think that's a bunch of BS.
One more thing, I don’t like to cause violence.
2006-11-01 21:33:29 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
By the way, I'm not a Mormon. I was never a Mormon.
2006-11-02 04:11:53 · update #1
If you're wondering why I created this question really late at night, it's because I work during a graveyard shift. Also, he has threatened me on a recording. I showed it to my ex, she said, "People have weaknesses."
2006-11-02 04:15:56 · update #2
Walk away from the church. You have done well not to be a Mormon.
It is harder to walk away from your ex. If you feel that her life is in danger and you have some glimmer of feelings for her, that will make it that much harder to walk away. Are you a church going fellow? If so, then pray for her eyes to be opened up to what this fellow is on about. The tape with the threat is a hard thing to look past.
Your neck may be on the line if you contact her again. Can you show the tape to some friends you had in common and let them talk to her? I hope that this is an acceptable answer to this sticky situation.
2006-11-02 13:17:22 · answer #1 · answered by Buzz s 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your EX is what she is now for reasons only the 2 of you know. Therefore she can make her own decisions about her life and relationships even without your approval. The same way as you can make your own decisions without her approval. She's moving on with her life, why don't you also move on with your life?
You said you two are friends, then just be a friend to her.. no more no less.
2006-11-01 21:38:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I bet it's a bunch of BS. He is probably trying to get in her pants. I don't think there's really anything you can do since she's your ex. Unless you can get her to stop seeing him. You can't do anything logical to the man unless you want violence and you don't. I'm afraid your stuck between a rock and a hard place. She's gonna have to learn the hard way, what sucks is that if you want to be friends with her your gonna have to watch all of it unfold. Good Luck.
2006-11-01 21:39:51 · answer #3 · answered by lovemykalli 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the thing is she is your ex for a reason. If you want to continue to be her friend then let it go. bad mouthing the new guy will only cause hard feelings. she will believe that you are jealous and drop you. find yourself a new girlfriend and you will find you care less and less about who your ex spend time with. an ex is an ex for a reason
2006-11-01 21:40:34 · answer #4 · answered by autumnbrookblue 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are dealing with a criminal psycho and a religious psycho. I feel your pain, but you must move on with your life and leave them to their misery. You do not need the drama or the issues these kinds of people will cause in your life. You can find better friends and I hope you do soon.
2006-11-02 14:38:49 · answer #5 · answered by kirstycristy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well he is a silly little idiot so ignore him and dw if i was there i would kick his smelly BUTT anyday he is a stupid gay wally
put it this way i would grass him up and take pics of him hitting people and get him so deep into truble he would cry like a baby
if ya got msn add richardjames007@cooldude.co.uk if ya need to chat about anything
2006-11-01 21:38:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since your ex-girlfriend is such a poor judge of character, then you should be glad you are not her boyfriend anymore.
Stay away from her. And you will stay away from trouble.
2006-11-01 21:43:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then walk away from the situation. It is none of your business what your ex is doing. live your life and let her live hers.>
2006-11-01 21:38:59 · answer #8 · answered by Captain Comment 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't tell your ex what to do or who to be friends with. But if you have children with her, you can go to the court and protest her custody. But have evidence with you; ie, pictures, etc.
2006-11-01 21:37:17 · answer #9 · answered by seek_fulfill 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
TALK 2 DA GUY, AND RECORD UR CONVERSATION, SO IF HE THREATENS U, U CAN TELL UR EX DAT LOOK, THIS IS DA TYPE OF GUY UR DATING
HAPPY 2 KNOW THAT UR WATCHING UR EX'S BACK, NOT MUCH PPL DO
WELL DONE, AND GOOD LUCK
2006-11-01 21:39:21 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋