i am pretty, most people say so but why don't i have any suitors?

Answer 1

because you dont have a face perhaps

Answer 2

Are you old enough to have suitors anyway? Well, if you're below 16, don't wonder. If you're 12 and you're that worried, I say you wait until your horizons expand for you to meet noteworthy boys who will be attracted to you. In the meantime enjoy the company of your friends... and live your life one day at a time.

...unless you're over 20 and you haven't had even a single admirer, then better ask yourself what's wrong and start improving on your speech, attitude, and the way you deal with the opposite sex..

Answer 3

Perhaps you don't provide enough opportunities for men to suit you.

In most everyday situations, proposing women and trying to get dates with them can get a man accused of sexual harassment. And many available bachelors simply don't it.

Many bachelors also don't feel comfortable going to pubs, bars, and night clubs.

And this leaves the internet dating sites and the dating agencies in the Yellow pages of your phone book as the only reasonable places where an attractive woman can advertise her availabiltiy and get many suitors to choose from.

Being pretty and having many bachelors around is not enough on its own to make relationships happen. For relationships to happen, you have to let the bachelors know of you availability and provide them with reasonable opportunities to make friends with you.

Answer 4

If you REALLY are pretty, they could be intimidated into not approaching. In a sense, it's really up to you to be friendly around those you want to be suitors. Otherwise, many aren't going to do it. Other than that, I don't know what to say.

Answer 5

If you're really hot the guys are probably intimidated. So you'll have to make sure and send some signals to guys you are interested in. You'd be amazed what a smile from a pretty girl can do to a guy. If you keep to yourself too much the guys can't find an opening to approach you. You may have to lure them in a little.

Answer 6

Sweetie, I think you need to take a critical look at your dealings with men. If I really get your point right, it's not that guys don't come to you but the problem is that none of those guys you've met are either put off by your attitude towards them. I'll therefore would advice you to take a thorough check at yourself and change whatever aspect that seems negative in your habit or character. You may contact me through my profile if you want us to discuss further. cya.

Answer 7

You know, "pretty" is only one part of the equation and sometimes that alone is not enough. Sometimes if a person is loud and overbearing or even overly shy it can be a turn off. What I'm sayng is that character and personality can go a long way in attracting someone whether your pretty or not. Just relax and be yourself and you'll do just fine.

Answer 8

confidence perhaps, or it could be that you dont seem 'approachable'. Some men (and women will) not talk to you if you have certain aspects of your personality that you carry in your posture. It isnt concious, we do it unknowlingly most of the time. For example, if you dress a certain way, carry yourself a certain way, smell a certain way, still have issues with past abuse or are somewhat unstable, people can feel that and will steer clear of you. Confidence is key. When you carry yourself well, people are attracted to you.

Good Luck!

Answer 9

Its not always enough to be pretty on the outside, your beauty needs to come from the inside as well.

Answer 10

Maybe you don't make yourself approachable (not smiling etc.) Or possibly there intimidated.