I have known the girl since 5th grade was good friends with her. We have been together since 7th grade and are now jrs. in highschool i found out a few months ago she did some stuff with a guy.thrid base to keep it appropriate. She lied about it and i finally found out when the guy told me, she promised shed get better and stuff. than about 1 month after i found out she got mad and went to a movie with him. We have had alot of problems over the year but have stayed together and fixed them, and when its just us its great. Its now been a while weve been single mabey a month? And she has been trying so hard to proove to me shes changed. Shes stopped haning around alot of her negative friends. as much. she always answers her phone for me now. Comes over to see how i am. Does get jelous that ive been hanging around with another girl (friends) She seems like she really wants to change and claims she understands how bad she hurt me now and is all sad about what she did and what she lost
Help
2006-11-01 21:04:42 · 5 answers · asked by marky mark 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Give her another chance but tell yourself if she plays around again you'll let her go. She probably was curious and wanted different experiences and she might feel the same way again...and who knows maybe you might want to experience something else as well. But you know as Dr. Phil says; once you break up, it's impossible to get back together because people and their issues don't go away, unless you want to accept the way she is...do you?
2006-11-01 21:11:41 · answer #1 · answered by Craiova 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Firsty,You're just kids don't take things so seriously.
Neway, ppl change and she seems to have done that, at the end of the day no one is worth u being upset or hurt over. Relationships can be difficult. Your story proves: 'you only realise what you had when you've lost it' :(
She seems to want you back. Hmmm...
Cheating on you in 7th grade!!! Damn! what is she going to be like when she gets older!? I think you can do better than her, she had her chance with you and she blew it. As for going to the cinema with some guy when she 'got mad'; that's so immature! She could have spoken to you about the situation and the reason why she was angry, then you could hav sorted it out properly. instead of trying to make you envious, that's so childish!! Forget abt her that's what i say. AND REMEMBER NO ONE IS WORTH YOU GETTING UPSET OVER!!
tc
STUDY HARD ;)
2006-11-02 05:22:16 · answer #2 · answered by Joyce 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give her 1 more chance and see how it goes, if the problem still persists, leave her for good.
2006-11-03 02:40:31 · answer #3 · answered by sugar_guy84 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's easier said than done, but move on.
2006-11-02 23:03:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well from my experience if they do it once they will do it again its better to let her go and move on
2006-11-02 05:10:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋